soft swap vs Full Swap: Swingers Discussion 204633

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TOPIC: soft swap vs Full Swap

Created by: real4ucpl Original Starting post for this thread:
We know to each his own but we really dont get what soft swap is all about ?? I mean why bother ? There's a new thing out called a porn movie right. maybe soft swap is something else ? But we stilll have no idea why anyone would go through all this "trouble" JUST to watch.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Miami, when you go to a club you do what you are comfortable with. We are a "full swap" couple. But we rarely swap. We mostly go to the club and have sex where others can watch. There is a club here where I would guess 50% of the people have NEVER swapped in any way. Just go and have fun! PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14006 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome Miami! The best part about swinging is enjoying it with your partner, on whatever level is comfortable to you. Yes, many long time lifestyle couples say why bother with soft swap only, braise they do go all the way. But I like to think of it as learning the lifestyle! We learned to be good lovers starting with kissing, then petting, then a little further as we got more comfortable. Same with swinging! There are lots of other couples out there just starting or only comfortable with girl on girl and then same room sex. The couples who have moved beyond and want full on swap sex are just more experienced. They started somewhere, and we start somewhere too. It IS a judgement, they'll judge you and say "you're so hot we wanna go all the way, but you're not ready so no thanks!" :)
Millington TN			Username hidden (219 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi... newbie post here... so do not shoot me. In my case, it took a lot of talking, insinuating and late night conversations with the wife to convince her to attend a swingers club, and admit that she's curious about it. We are planning to do it when the kids go on vacation to visit grandma and grandpa...She's interested in watching, maybe having sex in the same room as other people... but that's it, for now. She says that she doesn't want anybody touching... just watching. But by your rules, if we do not go all the way, we may as well stay home. I don't think that's correct, as many people, including my wife and me, find public sex to be extremely erotic. I read everyone's profile, and if I see they they only enjoy full swap, I do not waste their time. I ask questions to those that seem understanding enough to give good advise and admit that, when they started, they wanted to test the waters. It does not mean that we are not into the lifestyle.... we get out pleasures from a different flavor of it.... a taste that may or may not lead us to try something a little stronger. That's what I liked about conversations here, the fact that people seemed to respect and approve everybody else's boundries and choices, without judgement... was I wrong?
Miami FL			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Voyeurism and exhibitionism carry their own weight in arousing everyone in the group, so watching or soft swapping has it's own benefits. Some of us aren't quite ready to go "all the way," and soft swapping is a good way to ease into that. I liked the comment, (paraphrased) "First time soft swap, usually ready to go all the way second time!" because it's true. Just like some of us didn't sleep with a date on the first night out, so too we don't sleep together on our first couple date! :)
Millington TN			Username hidden (219 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Soft swap to us consists of just about everything except intercourse. Some couples are new and don't want to go all in the first time so to ease them into it we allow touching, breast sucking, dick stroking. Kissing, a little oral. The next time we get together they usually are willing to go all the way. The worst thing that can happen is we don't swap and have same room sex and watch each other. We were a full swap couple from the beginning but we never have second the first meeting. NEVER! We were not against a small sampling of the goods if we knew we were compatible and sex was going to happen.
Fairburn GA			Username hidden (54 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We strongly prefer full swap, hard to stop once you get going, but to each their own. Only a couple times we wound up doing soft swap & that was because the other guy had performance issues & Tom had to do double duty. He didn't complain, LOL!
Villas NJ			Username hidden (35 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We never know until we have met you.
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2826 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've been mild to wild, soft to full, couples and group, it's all fun. We respect others desires and we'll play in most any scenario if we click.
Painesville OH			Username hidden (130 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SB, you were such a bad influence on me, that I actually removed "Moderate" from my profile recently. :) Blows kisses
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1934 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Tried it ONCE since starting and realized it's just like making out in the back seat of the car only as adults! Made no sense whatsoever. If you're going to get us horny and wet, you're going to have to f*ck us.
Trophy Club TX			Username hidden (22 post)

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TOPIC: soft swap vs Full Swap