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| need help with terms....soft swap? hard swap?? ect |
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Hey! If I do a swap, he darn well better be hard!
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Thanks 4play, we ALWAYS tell the couple what our limits are, (which is basically everything but penetration, which we "thought" (guess thats what we get for thinking LOL) thats what soft swap meant) in the begining of chatting with them and again when we meet face/face...So that there are no "surprises" in the heat of the moment. I guess we've been lucky so far cause we've heard some horror stories about ppl running out of a room, grabbing their clothes, cause the couple they were with had "issues" and we sure in the heck don't want to experience something like that!!
Thanks for the feedback! ~Mrs~ |
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Enjoy, Sparky! I'm sure if you keep that open mind and communicate well, you'll make your own luck, whatever the outcome may be!
L., who apologizes for being a smartass before, but I couldn't help it- I'm drawn that way |
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Thanks, Valovers, I always appreciate a multi-lingual man.
L. ; ) |
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Translating CnL's remark for you:
Somewhere they encountered a couple and started to play only to have one or both of the other couple freak out when they saw their spouse playing with someone else. Some people THINK they want to swing, but discover they can't handle it and freak out. |
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< Now, what does it mean when a profile says "no drama"? >
It means at some point they hooked up with someone with a boatload of baggage and were expected to play bellhop, but didn't like the uniform that much ; ) L. |
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I'm so glad I found these forums on this site...i learn something NEW everyday reading these...Thanks everyone!
So now my point to this is...I thought soft swinging meant everything but penetration (cept for with our own spouse) and after reading these post I found there are different types of softies, so I guess this means that we should add to our profile what we mean by being soft swap? Would it really make a difference to ppl reading our profile if we state exactly what type of soft swinging we do? Would really like to hear other ppls views on this... ~Mrs~ |
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A relationship "with benefits" means they want to be more than a 1-night fuck. They want to be friends AND fuck (the benefits!)
Friendfucking ain't half bad, either. :-) |
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hope2, swinging is what each wants it to be. some do random, some think if you meet you have sex.The common ground being your here for sex.Others want to take time, still others want dates forever. some want to watch and be watched others want girl girl and oral ,full swap and on and on and on.
There is no wrong or right way to swing. Swinging is what you feel most comfortable in what you are wanting to do. |
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VIRGIN POSTER ALERT! I GOT one! :-)
Welcome, KenandCarroll. Bad hygiene is an automatic deal breaker. Make your excuses and make your exit as gracefully and quickly as you can. Bad hygiene, in our experience, is unusual among swingers, who are normally EXTRA careful to be all squeaky clean. Don't be afraid to stop everything and leave when you encounter a situation like this. Just be as diplomatic as you can and get out of there. |
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