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TOPIC: Meeting Swinger Friends
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midagehippie
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Suggestions on how to.meet swinger friends? We aren't new to swinging...been almost 4 years since we started. But Jean and I are both painfully introverted. We go to clubs, sit alone, eat, drink our own booze, and we're wall flowers...watching. Oh sure, Jean is hot and men always manage to strike up conversations with her, and we have had success hooking up. Well, at least Jean has had success. We prefer lifestyle parties, hotel takeovers, private parties. For some reason, we aren't as timid and introverted at those. We decided a long time ago that, while we like our regular circle of friends, (our vanilla friends), we would prefer swingers in our every day circle of friends. We have "like" interests. With our vanilla friends, we have to watch how we act, what we say, etc... But within a group of swinger friends, we would be free to flirt, touch, kiss, feel, and even grope...and she is one of the rare ones who responds positively to being sexually groped in a sexy, respectful, passionate way. If we had lifestyle friends, we would be free to be sexy, flirtatious, and if the chemistry is there, hook up! But how is an introverted couple to make such friends. I mean, everyone SEEMS to like us...and I know, they PROBABLY like Jean and I come along with the deal. But our friendships with other swingers always seems to be there, at the club, party, etc...and never seems to progress outside of the lifestyle. Even if sex were not involved, we STILL want to be friends with fellow swingers...is that even possible? NONE of our family or vanilla friends know we swing. We are simply dying to meet and keep lifestyle friends. Is our introversion interfering with that, do you think?
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