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So now we need a definition of 'sport fucking!?!?
For us the definition is: Recreational sex with people for whom we do not have romantic love. We do have affection for our swinging friends just as we have affection for our vanilla friends. Tim, we have a panel of 4 judges. Us and them :) Gwen, good luck. I think your quest in iis more difficult than ours and ours is hard enough. |
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I'm (Gwen) one of those people who could be in a poly relationship... haven't found the right person/people but that's a whole different story.
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I think this is well put and elegantly stated, thank you for the holistic and healthy viewpoint!
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where is the like button for that comment?
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"The day you feel an emotional connection with a playmate is the day you need to do everyone a favor and back out of the lifestyle until you get your perspective back."
Who is everyone?? We have had an emotional connection with our current partners for years, and our perspective is just fine. There are not many posts on these fora that rub me the wrong way, but this statement is very narrow minded. The emotional connection as well as the great sex is what some of us out here have enjoyed for many years. It in no way indicates that something is wrong with our relationship, or our perspective. |
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To me, sport fucking implies that there should be a panel of judges keeping score.
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There are a whole lot of other people between those who prefer "sport fucking" and "polyamory." Just find people you like, discuss your rules/preferences, and have fun.
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Gee, I thought there was room here for all. Personally, if I or Mrs. C had someone who expressed romantic love for us we would run like hell the opposite direction.
There are clearly people on this website who are looking for polyamory. My understanding of that term is more than 2 people are in a romantic loving relationship. Good for them if they find it. I also presume that there is a range of behavior from people like Mrs C and myself who are here for the 'sport fucking' to those looking for love. I hope we all find fulfilling experiences. |
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losamantes, with all due respect, you should perhaps speak for yourself.
Some sports fans think you cannot like the Giants and the Eagles, or 'Bama and Auburn, or UNC and NC State. If you do, then you aren't really a fan. I say hogwash to all of that. If I like football, I like football. If I like women, I like women. When I'm with a woman that I don't get to be with often, I tend to show all the affection that I have felt or thought since the last time. And including what's been developed this time. Without affection, sex is just masturbation with another's body part. |
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The day you feel an emotional connection with a playmate is the day you need to do everyone a favor and back out of the lifestyle until you get your perspective back.
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