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Husband here I had Women once who Loved the word Lusting I had no problem with that but still think they most be more than that to give yourself to that person at the time.After all I still remember her name how many of you still remember they names like to know.

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JD, maybe that's why the greeks have so many different words for "love".

strictly sport fucking for us. doesn't mean we don't need chemistry, but there's a big difference between chemistry and love. I also know there a couple of guys she "loves" to fuck. but her love is for me alone, and mine for her.

and that chemistry I mentioned is all we need to set the stage for some pretty damn serious throwdown!

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well stated.

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The problem with either/or is that it ignores the whole range of 'in-between' which are neither either nor or. One of the fun things about human relationships is that they're almost Never either/or, but almost always somewhere in between. English isn't made for fine distinctions in relationships, and too many people take the easy path of 'whatever works for us is right and everything else is wrong', ignoring the fact that not all relationships are identical and that something that works just fine for one relationship can be totally wrong for another. The question itself is bogus and forces responses into 'right' or 'wrong' channels. "Our way is the right way. All other ways are wrong" is a great thumbnail description of extremism and extremism in Anything is destructive.

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My husband and I have differing views on this. (go figure!) I call it Sport Fucking because to me it's all about Catch and Release! Him? He doesn't like my term at all. He says there has to be more to it. Love is the wrong word totally, he gets that part. He says if there's no connection, whatever it is, there's not gonna be any action either. He's so right. If there's something 'just not there', lets call it a spark, its game over. We made sure at the outset to know our boundaries and we laid it out like this: "I am not bothered by anything you may do with someone else, the only thing I ask is you never love them like you do me." So with that in mind we only 'make love' with each other. We like to fuck with our playmates, a lot!

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definitely sport fuckers here also

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Thank you sweets! Yes, April is the month I started chemotherapy, 2 years ago. I am excited that I am still healthy in that regard. RA....well, she is the cross I bear haha. Its not a big deal though, we all have our own challenges and issues...and happiness is a decision we make.

And yes, I'd love for you to take up the offer on the wall. Thats good shit maynard!

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Nice to see you Shelly, glad to hear you remain C free, hopefully you can keep that RA in check as well.

You know I'd love to have you up against that wall and.....

Oh well, a guy can dream. Have a great day!

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Depends on the partner , the day, the moments leading up to it all. But I dont make love to anyone in the lifestyle. To make love would mean to me loving feelings are involved. I like sport fucking, slow fucking, as long as its fucking Im good.

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In my personal experience, given its been awhile lol.....other wives do not tend to appreciate more intimate sex with their husbands. I would say making love...but you do not dare mention the dreaded "L" word, so I tend to say slow and steady hahaha. Me? It depends on my mood. I adore slow, sensuous sex. Not necessarily soft now...because intense sex with me is never soft. Slow, however, is powerful. But I can never rule out fucking. There is something about a man slamming me against the wall and fucking me with my panties pushed to the side because he cant even wait to take my clothes off before getting his cock in me. I'll pretty much take both, depending on the chemistry.

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