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I've never cuddled with a swing partner. We've all crashed out on the bed together, but never a "cuddling" situation. Too personal.

Lahaina HI
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Hmmm.. interesting question.. if we are with another couple and one pair finishes first then sure; why not.. and we have. You're kind of in the afterglow of it all at that point and feeling happy, appreciative, really good, etc.

At that point you may even notice things about the person you didn't before. I've let someone know (by whispering in her ear for example) how awesomly smooth her skin is, that she may not realize just how pretty she is, and more in those moments. Completely sincere comments, however, also carefully chosen so as to not create awkward moments.

Sometimes one can get so excited and caught up in the early minuets of playing that you don't get to note a person's sexyness. And sometimes you don't want to say too much before you play because it might be misinterpreted as being more... rules and etiquette.. sometimes it feels as if there is too much of it. As long as everyone is having fun, we're very laid back about it :)

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then make sure your SO is on the same page and don't cuddle. We really don't cuddle with other couples, its more when we bring in a SM. And only a few of those are "cuddle worthy".

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I would prefer that he does not cuddle with others. I don't cuddle with other men after, as I reserve cuddling for him.

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Depends on the swing partner. I have had several I have enjoyed cuddling with or sleeping between him and the hubby. Then there are others that I wouldn't want to.

DO what feels right to you.

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Here's what I think: welcome to the forums! To me, cuddling is an expression of warmth, appreciation, affection. Sometimes it's just some post-orgasmic light stroking. Or it may be some good, firm, and distinct squeezing.

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I would like to get your opinions on cuddling. I would like to know how others feel about cudding your swinging partner. I (the female) love cudding with my lifelong fiancee after we have made love. I do not cuddle with a partner I have had sex with swinging. I think cuddling should be reserved for he and I.

What are your opinions on cuddling?

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