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"@MNBGirl, I'd just like to applaud you for having the guts to list your location as Coon Rapids, MN. ;)"

That's kind of a weird thing to say, SS. Coon Rapids is a real city with over 61,000 residents and it was incorporated in 1952. What's your problem with it?

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@MNBGirl, I'd just like to applaud you for having the guts to list your location as Coon Rapids, MN. ;)

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I have to be mentally challenged and stimulated before I can even consider sex. If you can't hold a conversation, make me laugh and let the natural way of the build up happen with flirting, sharing sexual desires and wanting each other so badly it just goes to that next level, it's just not happening. Someone who can challenge me mentally becomes extremely sexy, grrr.....

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Probably more the men who dont need the chemistry but without a little bit of it then its just a boring fuck. I like to be excited, have a little chemistry and things in common and I enjoy being able to be friends with my swinging partners, not just a hit and quit moment and I know my wife is the same way except she likes a bit more of the chemistry. -Jake

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Uriah, Perfect, Sav: exactly my feeling. Chemistry is vital or the signals don't go down to Mr. Happy telling him to get off his lazy ass. A smell. A sight. A touch, or a sound is sufficient to start but without chemistry with won't flare. Like lighting charcoals without starter fluid. Not the most romantic comparison...but I'm a guy and it was all I could come up with.

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As a woman, if I feel no chemistry, no attraction, no desire for a person~then why would I want to interact sexually with that individual? To do so, would be the equivalent of a pity fuck.

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No chemistry would seem like going to a prostitute. That's not what we are here for. If you want to excite us, stimulate our minds and our bodies.

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Sex without chemistry? That's must like be those people who go to an all you can eat buffet buffet dinner and pile their food so high on the plate you have to wonder when they last had a decent meal. I don't really do buffets ,preferring to select my own tasty treats and I don't seem to have to worry limited selection on the menu.

When I want dessert I'm not settling for a Little Debbies boxed snack! Mrs Sav

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Exactly,, Wanna,, maybe XXXXX will eventually get one of the many yes it is important yes, yes, yes even just for sex,

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@navyp78 - The Mrs here. Yes, this is "just sex" for me, but I have to at least be physically attracted to the other person. I'm not a "professional". I do not and will not have sex with whoever walks thru the door. Just because a guy has a penis doesn't mean I'm jumping on it.

And no, hubby and I are NOT looking to build a relationship with *anyone*. We already have one! It's called a marriage!! :)

I think it's great that some people like to be "friend's first", but we sure don't. In fact (and we'll probably come across as shallow and lame, but) we rarely...if ever, come to think of it...go back for seconds. We like *strange*! LOL

Keeping up a "relationship" is hard work and I personally get bored and annoyed with people. The thought of meeting a couple and going out for dinner and a show with them is like...yuck! Sitting there, making small talk with someone....so that *they* can feel comfortable enough with me that they'll have sex with me...that I knew within 5 seconds that I'm not into them, is like torture. I'd rather go to the dentist. At least he's cute, funny, has money and drives a cool car!

I think that everyone's idea/definition of "chemistry" is different.

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