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so far, that's been the way we've seen it too. And it's unfair to the male. He goes around just looking grateful for anything that's beyond marital monogamy, so it works for them, I guess. It would not work for us to do that, and we wouldn't anyway. No room for blatant jealousy in this.
ANYWAY...it's fun when I "feel" chemistry from simply emailing and viewing pics. Any thoughts there? good and bad? Gina |
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Ya know.. we never thought about it that way.. but it does seem to make some couples selfish.. and we do know of a couple around here ..that she is allowed to play.. but she get mad if the other female gives him any attention..
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yeah, we know people like that too. Thank God for the chemistry thing...it's really bombastic when it works for 2 couples, all around. (just had to use that word...I've never used it before).
There has to be some sort of chemistry, intellectual or mental...yes, but physical attraction in some manner too. We love that spark. G. |
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Lost...total insecurity on their part.
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Some folks really don't want an attraction to build before fucking...I think it's a shame."
Absolutely agreed to the 100%th degree. I think in some ways people are almost selfish. They want to have attraction...but the thought of their spouse being attracted to another is threatening. |
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chemistry for the win
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"Chemistry is an attraction I feel for another person and he (hopefully) feels for me in return. Sexual energy is the atmosphere.....as in a house party has a high sexual energy"
So true Lost..I think the bottom line is I feel if there is no chemistry/attraction than why would one want to pursue a meeting in the first place. Just me thinking again i guess ;} Scott |
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It's too bad people, both swingers and non, often flake out just when an attraction is getting interesting. It's, like, too intense for them or something. Or maybe they are afraid their spouse is going to get attached. Some folks really don't want an attraction to build before fucking...I think it's a shame.
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To me chemistry and sexual energy are different. Chemistry is an attraction I feel for another person and he (hopefully) feels for me in return. Sexual energy is the atmosphere.....as in a house party has a high sexual energy.
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No chemistry No sex.
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