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Hi y'all! We are new to this. Y'all have any ideas on how we can find the right couple. Let alone get responses to emails we've sent. We'd really like to meet a couple and get to making new and lasting friendships with benefits.

Minden City MI
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Welcome to the forums, Shy,

The one comment we would make about your profile is to add at least one public picture if you want to generate interest. We had our profile up pretty much exactly as you see it for several months, but with no pictures. Our view counter went from 50 to 250 in four days after we added the pic of K and the hits and intro emails keep increasing. Have at least one picture of the two of you together, G-rated, faces showing, available (hidden if you prefer) as this goes a long way toward convincing people you are not fakes.

As far as detecting fakes, if one half of the couple (nearly always the female) is conspicuously absent during your initial emails, red flag. Be persistent that the girls need to make contact and set the pace, dates, etc. Follow Amy's advice about devouring the information available in these forums.

Best of luck and remember: it's all about fun!

Mukilteo WA
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Shy and New-

Take some time and review as many of the threads on these Forums that you can. The discussions here will give you some insight into recreational sex. Frankly, the best way to get started is to find an experienced, intelligent, patient mentor who will take the time to understand you and introduce you to compatible people.

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