Wrapping my head around : Swingers Discussion 109363

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User Details are only visible to members.	Voorhees if you need some practice with that call me. LOL
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23750 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Usually the dance starts out clothed, ends in varying states of undress in part depending on what I had on to begin with and if the gentleman in question is one that likes having sex with a lady with stockings and heels on. I usually will start stripping the SM as I dance too. One of the rules is though you can't touch me until I put your hands on me lol usually by that time I get picked up and thrown on the bed (what can I say I like strong men) and any apprehension on anyones part is gone. oh and I have some moves that for sure will put some personal parts of me in all the right places on the person I'm dancing for ;) PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	yeah drinks in hot tubs can do that lol. Glad to hear it turned out to be a fairly good experience for you. Personally I like the SM to take a more aggressive role, and my husband is very comfortable with this. But our style is a bit different from the couple you played with. My favorite way of getting things started is instead of the hot tub is to dance for the single guy put him in a chair fire up some music use the wall and floor until ending up lap dancing the SM find it breaks the ice very very well! Find your style and your comfort zone and you will start to have a lot of fun as you find couples that match with you. PG
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User Details are only visible to members.	He's quite nice to look at and his posts are usually well written...some lucky fit person is going to have a blast... Poly, where are you? G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	heehee I would like to double team him...............;0 thanks for the compliment but you are a pretty lady as well :) PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Trooper, are you my much-prettier parallel life??? Hehehe. Fun how we find people with similar life and lifestyle experiences. Makes for validation all around, and we can double team you with our expert and excellent advice to boot... Gina :)
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we have limited experience in this area too, and were very lucky to have a great first experience. We still meet with him for MFM's or I meet up with him when I can for some one on one (hubby always knows and approves of us doing this) They take turns with me and a great deal of the time I'm playing with both at one time, which I love to do. Gina is right just relax, go to meet with them and if all clicks have a great time playing. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	TrooperPirateGirl...you mean my ex had another wife he didn't tell me about? hmm. Hypoc...just enjoy. If the man is truly secure in himself, he will also aid in the play, or not. Depends on their preferences for play. We have one friend who loves all thoughts of his wife being pounded hard by a sexy younger man and then when that man goes home, the husband finishes her off, etc. It's the kinkiness of it all, the sharing, the eroticism, etc. For us, we've had limited MFM experiences, so all I can say is that our favorite single male was one who "took turns" and had a good rapport with my husband...Dan would say things like, "you can f-k her harder, she likes that," and other things, and they both gave me a great time. So, it's a matter of communicating. Have a great time, and we'll all be anticipating your "report." As for the lack of a meaningful relationship, my husband was 42 when we married, and he'd been everywhere, done everyone, yet held out that long, basically, for ME, as far as really loving someone and committing and being in a serious relationship. We both consider ourselves fortunate. G.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You might get it better after you have seen a loving committed husbands reaction to having his woman appreciated and enjoyed by you. Trust me I came from a relationship with the most jealous insecure man on the face of the earth. To be blessed with the man I have is something I'm in awe of everyday. Our/my play with others just heightens our sex life, it doesn't take anything away. PG
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14164 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	even in the vanilla world I was not shy about letting a man know I was interested in him, but I tend to like men to take the more aggressive role after the interest is shown if that makes any sense. So that has not really changed for me at least. As far as what is going on in my husbands mind while another guy is fucking me.........for my husband at least he loves watching all the little changes in my facial expression and body movements, he gets to see things he doesn't get to see if he is the one doing them to me. He likes seeing someone else enjoy his wife and enjoys his wife getting to play with someone else. PG
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