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Ha ha ha...just look at your profile...performance anxiety should not apply...man ALWAYS have performance anxiety...may be you should add..Viagra users should not apply.

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Da! or it used to be. Have not been for a long long time...you don't have to participate in anything that you don't want to.

In Checkmates for instance, there is a common area, you can dance, socialize, an area where people eat, the other side is where people fuck or play if you will. If you want to go to the area where people are having sex, you have to disrobe, you do so by the lockers. You can wear a robe that you can bring with you, or one of those terry numbers that I see some men wear to cover their butt and front, looks like a skirt. Your wife can wear a slinky silky or terry robe, whatever you chose :).

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The thing with the clubs...how exactly works, what happens inside ? is it just like a club drinks and dance or sex ? say OneLegUp for example.

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Used to be Bulgaria...over 20 years now never went back. That was even before the wars..long time.

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Several years ago. Right before they got coverage on Real Sex. It was an awesome group of people. Very upscale, drew many Eastern European hotties! :)

Where in eastern Europe are you from?

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Anyone bein in OneLegUp...just checked the site sounds a bit interesting..

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Huh! I said finally twice ;)

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thanx, ye long time Dune fan...waiting for the remake. you might be right but I thought one shroud be honest so people dont waste time..no? let me polish it a bit.

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A Dune fan! Welcome. We're Eastern European as well.

I read your profile, have little to contribute on top of what was already stated by Scandle. But wanted to touch on a couple of things. Your profile is not friendly by any stretch of the imagination. The fact that you are Caucasian is obvious in your photos, you've touched on it twice in your profile, in my outlook it comes off a bit on the fearful of other races part. You can weed out those that you aren't attracted to or wish no interaction with differently.

Likewise with bi sexuality and BDSM, you sound almost aggressive toward people who are into it. I would soften up the tone of your profile.

And finally, you guys are in New York city, our old stomping ground. All the M&G's take place there, clubs such as Checkmates. Find the time to get out on Saturday night and check it out, you don't have to be full swap to go and enjoy yourselves.

And finally, stick around the forums, they are anything BUT dead. They are very very lively.

Good luck to you.

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Sardukar, Seems like things slow down around mid to late summer. Kids at home, vacations, etc. Things should heat up here as things cool down out there. Just glanced at your profile and noticed you're not full swap and you're interested in polyamory. Both are small subsets of the lifestyle. Other threads have pointed out the challenges soft swingers face; combined with polyamory it will be tough to find couples that meet your preferences even in NYC.

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