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Fair enough. The CDC is a pretty unimpeachable source. But I'll say that the "bi" prejudice is based more on personal preference than disease prevention, which is fine. Bi men and women, in our experience, practice safe sex just as much as straight couples do.. Personally, I'm more concerned with closeted herpes carriers, who may or may not know that they have that virus. But then again, that virus can be dormant for years before emerging into a breakout. Maybe the best solution is to just use protection.

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All you have to do is google CDC and you will find alot of information or just read thru the older forums and there are links others have found and posted there.

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Saw this thread and had to chime in. HIV among men who have sex with men is much higher than in men who do not have sex with men. It's not a prejudice way of thinking, it's just a fact. I can't post the article here, but do a google search for higher instance of std in gay community and pick the second link. it cites a study done by the CDC a couple of years ago. In Nevada, where I live, it is estimated that of all people infected with HIV, 80% of them are gay or bisexual.

We always play protected anyway, but for us if I'm not into the bisexual thing anyway, then why would we risk it?

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jzabelle: Really? Where is the data about increased STDs among the bi community? Seems to me that unprotected sex among those of any sexual preference fosters STDs. This isn't the 1980s, when the AIDS virus was mainly confined to the gay community. I'd be interested in whatever source you're citing.

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the same reasons most women are bi.its just the way it is.............BS

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It has been discussed in the forums, if you look back I am sure you will find pretty much the same question you posed. Many dont want to play with bi males because there is a lot of information on diseases associated with the bi male community. Dont kill the messenger lol. You can find the threads yourself.

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Devils advocate: I know my hubby is worried that in the heat of the moment a bi guy may make a move and then Mr B would get turned off and ruin the fun by stopping everything. I've explained to him that its just like gays in the military: just because they're gay/bi doesn't mean they're going to hit on every guy they come across, straight or gay! Just like bi married women don't go out and cheat with a woman because they like the idea of being with a woman. It's like you said: lay it all out there with couples, just like we say "soft only" if and when you find a couple, say "straight only," and voila! Everyone's on the same page. As a side note, I'm a voyeur and get turned on by bi guys playing as much as I get turned on by straight play. :) Mrs B

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