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Hummm... well, there seems to be a great deal of good advice here already, but one thing we didn't see was the fact that perhaps the people YOU mailed were fake to begin with. Some girls let their guys take pics of them, but never intend it to be for a site like this, then the guy puts it up when he discovers the site but after the girl (probaly wisely) dumps him. So he doesn't want to meet anyone, just surf with out anyone thinking him a fake. If he blows you off, it might just be a defense mechanism. Just thoughts....

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Most people here are ok and basically nice I believe. The paid membesr especially take this a bit more serious then the free members. Many free member take it serious too. Our favorite playmates are free members. You get into it what you put into it. Those with two word profiles get what they ask for. I made darn sure people know where we stand. Likes dislikes etc. I answer all our email even from those that can't read.

Some people think that the animinity of the on-line experiece makes it less real or something. We have had some people cancel on our second visit 20 minutes after they should have been at the house. We prepared for them. Purchased nice foods, drinks etc. Really expected company and a no show. Would you do that to your friend next door. Sometimes things happen and that we do understand. We forgot or we're tired...thats BS.

Some people are just bullshitters. The majority of people we have actually met have been very nice. We never had a bad time. Drinks and dinner are not a commitment in maraige. Some pople are just full of them selves. We're hardly perfect...no one is. Nice people and good friends come in all sizes, and colors. etc....

Your playing a number game here. You through enough stuff against the wall and something going to stick. Your going to get some liars, nuts, nice people, nice people that just arn't your style or to your liking. Let them politly know your not interested. You don't have to put them down. Your not a better person because you were born better looking, or better body. Its all part of the game. We have met some wonderful people on this sitr and other too. Keep trying. Their out there.

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Large Coke, If your lady is "somewhat curious about women" then change her stat from straight to bi curious. None of your pics are public, they could be of chickens and ducks we don't know, that doesnt help the thought that you aren't just a dirty old man dicking around. I personally wouldn't be interested in contacting you. This has nothing to do with those ppl being rude to you but if you want to be successful in meeting someone visit one of the Profile threads I seriously recommend it.

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Check your deleted items folder, it may still be there unless it was deleted from there also. Zo.

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you have gotten some good advice. dont let that response get to you. i the male mailed a couple that lives hundreds of miles away complimenting the beauty of the lady and received back a very nice response and an offer to meet and get to know each other if we ever got out their way. even here there are a FEW rude people and as said before some are just simply defensive.

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Personally, I would send the email to Tech Support and report the couple to them. There is no excuse for just plain nastiness.

Carrie

Corpus Christi TX
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you win me for a night Nympho! Don't you feel lucky?

<hoping Nympho feels lucky right about now!>

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well..... your name is large cock 329 (does that mean that there are 328 other lrgkokes out there?) and your profile is completely empty and you emailed someone just as fast as you signed on. You must understand that there are thousands of horny old men jerking off to the same picture you were complimenting and your profile looks like one of them. See they come looking for free porn or the thrill of getting you on the im box and showing you their weenie (cyber flashing) and then proceed to jerk themselves to your picture. So maybe this couple (guy or girl) was on the defense of rude dirty men. One day you'll understand but other than that this is the best site out there and works great for what we do! Good luck and feel free to ask us more Q's as we will answer them honestly but nicely. Mrs. Ahem.

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