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TOPIC: What to Do
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We are new to the lifestyle and are looking for our first couple. We are both very eager to pop our swinger cherry so to speak. :) The problem we face is that we are not into partying. We don't dance, drink, or smoke. We don't go to clubs either. Those things just have never appealed to us. We like going out, but to movies, dinner, mini golf, etc. Seems like all the swingers we have come across online are all into partying, dancing, and clubs. So, what are people who are not into those things supposed to do?

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Thank you for all your advice! We are hanging in there and I found a local club that does regular meet and greets so we hope to go to one of those soon.

Morristown TN
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When we were starting out and hadn't yet met couples through swinger friends or at house parties hosted by swinger friends, we searched this and other swinger sites for couples who were near in age, near in distance, and whose pictures and profiles indicated they might be good matches for us. Then emailed them and suggested we meet at a family type restaurant located conveniently for them and us.

We lucked out with the first couple we met, with whom we had our first swinger experience a couple weeks later. They also hosted several small-ish house parties every year, and we met other couples through them at those parties.

We found it was a lot of effort to get started. Only about one out of every 4 or 5 couples we met for dinner appealed to both of us (and we to them) so that we ended up as playmates. But once you have found three or so couples who become playmates, you can keep busy enough, plus you will meet some of their swinging friends and then it just happens easily.

Best of luck! Persistence is the key.

Jim

South Riding VA
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SB311. GREAT advice!!!

Wilmington NC
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We are new to the lifestyle and are looking for our first couple. We are both very eager to pop our swinger cherry so to speak. :) The problem we face is that we are not into partying. We don't dance, drink, or smoke. We don't go to clubs either. Those things just have never appealed to us. We like going out, but to movies, dinner, mini golf, etc. Seems like all the swingers we have come across online are all into partying, dancing, and clubs. So, what are people who are not into those things supposed to do?

Morristown TN
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