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TOPIC: What the Hell
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We get rejected many times-mostly because of our ages-if we get rejected for that reason-we are happy we have been rejected! So-rejection is just part of the Lifestyle-just a fact of Life-style. Couples that take the time to get to know us-rather than reject us for our age or another reason-they are the couples we want to get to know. People in the Lifestyle tend to reject others -just on how they initially look-or what age they put down on their profile. The wonderful Couples we have met in the Lifestyle more than make up for the many rejections we have had-those couples are wonderful! Don't give up-keep in there!-Karen

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CinDew, as Flirty said, everyone gets rejected. After all, everyone is different in what they find attractive, and when it comes to having sex with someone there MUST be a pretty strong attraction. It's not like any other kind of relationship.

No matter how good looking you are, nobody is going to appeal to everybody. So you just have to EXPECT that many people won't find you to be their "cup of tea," but SOME out there will. It's the way the world works.

If you're going to participate in swinging, you just have to be able to adjust to the fact that not everybody will want to be with you, just like you won't want to be with just any swinger.

Be patient, and keep trying. And you certainly would have more success if you posted some pictures of both of you. And you may have even more luck if you attend a Meet 'n Greet in your area or a local on-premises swing club. In those situations you can meet a fairly large number of couples all at once, and it's a lot easier to evaluate people as a potentially good match when you meet in person than it is just using an internet profile.

Good luck, and don't get discouraged.

Jim

South Riding VA
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