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TOPIC: What is your ideal outcome
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Find "the" couple to play with long term.
Variety is the spice of life, we will always be seeking new partners. Experience as many partners as possible. Looking to add others to our primary relationship (polyamorous) We have no expectations from the lifestyle. We are just curious right now, still deciding if it is for us. |
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Thanks for all your replies. Your openness and candor help us newbies out a lot....Our feelings at this point are about the fun with our partners first without the expectation of more....It's nice to go out with a couple, though, and be able to talk about anything and everything and not have to be concerned crossing boundaries of adult conversation and making anyone uncomfortable. We've met quite a few people, played some, but mostly the fun for us has been between my husband and me for weeks and weeks afterward ;-).
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I made the mistake early on in getting my feelings a bit too wrapped up in an individual so I stepped back took a deep breath and came back into the water and have been having a blast ever since. I expect a good time and when I leave, I rarely call unless the person has been particularly generous and I follow up to say a special thank you otherwise I am detached until the next time -- if there is a next time. And, like my gurl Ji, I pretty much know if I am going to fuck a man the moment I see him. Why should you have to grow on me. I am not looking to marry you...please (lol)!
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Our truly ideal outcome? Last night is a perfect example. We partied with a wonderful group of people who are swingers....but more than anything are some awesome, fun, bad ass people.
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Kudos lost_j..very well said
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We have had some great times, once we started having fun with the possibility of having sex with others. And I believe we have become friends we would have missed really. When you are only focused on fucking, and that is the sole reason you are there...you tend to miss people other than those you are particulary interested in sexually.
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And that's our new philosophy, too. Now we can just concentrate on enjoying ourselves.
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Pulaski TN |
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Xtra hit the nail on the head :)
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We never have expectations going in. It sets you up for failure. We prefer to go with the flow. We have had some one nighters and a few long term play partners where it worked well for us. We would agree, it gets better on the 2nd,3rd time as everyone is a little more comfortable with each other.
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I go in with no expectations other than having a good time with my husband. If we meet up with someone, and the chemistry is right for all involved, well that is an added bonus. I believe in expecting the unexpected, and having fun.
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