Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.
SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

HELP
FORUMS General Discussions Getting Started What is up with everyone's profiles not having pics of the men
TOPIC: What is up with everyone's profiles not having pics of the men
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4
Start   25 to 34 of 34 
User Details are only visible to members.
@uforsex - Your picture won't load??? You mean it technically will not upload your picture? Or the pic is not approved? If it's not approved, use another pic. If its a tech issue, email Cust Serv. They helped us when we had photo issues.

Lahaina HI
Username hidden
(634 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
The problem I have is that I can't get my pic to load to the site, there for leaves me out in the cold without the chance to meet anyone and become friends. Truly a disappointment.

Macclesfield NC
Username hidden
(19 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I'm too ugly to post my photo on here. We hope her hotness is enough to get another couple interested and pray they'll overlook my hideousness just to get to her.

White Hse Sta NJ
Username hidden
(4489 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
SEXYCLP,

Welcome to the "lifestyle" as well as the forums. I did take a close look at your photos as well as your profile. I think you've done an excellent job on both accounts. I sincerely do understand your need for privacy but will mention you have limited yourself to a very small pool of people who will be willing to meet you sight unseen. Add to that your preference for Soft Swinging and you've got your work cut out for you . Be patient, don't get discouraged...get involved ! Meet & Greets and/or swing parties and clubs will be very helpful if you chose to not share face photos. Most of us are far too old and far to cynical to meet blind dates. Trust I am not criticizing your preferences nor trying to discourage but merely trying to make you aware of the hurtles ahead of you. We all struggle to find like minded people who we both find attractive and who also share our preferences so you are not alone. I wish you happiness and may all your fantasies become realities.

Mrs Sav

Anniston AL
Username hidden
(5501 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Before fleshing out our profile, we spent a considerable amount of time perusing these forums with regard to all aspects of the lifestyle. Human sexuality as it relates to the lifestyle is very interesting to us, as are the "nuts and bolts" of creating high-quality lifestyle connections. Two recurring themes regarding profile deficiencies seemed to be prevalent: the "fudging" of age/height/weight. And images showing just close-up/selective bits of either partner, and the general lack of showing the male partner at all. We chose our profile words with care, and our images (all recent) with the intention of visually conveying "our essence" in a way which was both discreet and comfortable for us. The two pics of us together, if one cares to spend a moment looking at them, convey the deep and loving connection we feel as a couple. We enjoyed every moment of crafting our profile - it felt very sexy, made us think jointly about our goals here, and definitely made us feel close.

Waterbury VT
Username hidden
(13 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
thanks livewire :)

Louisville KY
Username hidden
(17843 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
since you asked ;) you can now see ours.

Louisville KY
Username hidden
(17843 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I will admit we are bad about that currently, we used to have more of him on here in public pics and more of me but we deleted all of our pics just under 2 years ago and started over. Need to fix that. But over all we use the club to meet couples. SLS to rather unsuccesfully lately to meet SM's. if we find couples off here that is nice too. If we contact anyone we open our private pics which have face and body shots of both of us.

PG

Louisville KY
Username hidden
(17843 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
@kieran - I know, right?!?!? If it's the woman in this LS that makes the decisions, how is she supposed to make decisions when there are no pix of the guy??

For us, we put up pix of both of us. Then people can see our pix, read our profile, judge us both and contact us if they want. Our time and their time is not wasted!

Most of the time, the guy of the couple is not bad looking! So what are couples afraid of??? I don't get it.

Lahaina HI
Username hidden
(634 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I cannot tell you how many profiles I have looked at and all the photos are just of the lady. The majority of the profiles I have looked at have very sexy ladies and one blurred photo of the guy fully dressed. What is the point.

If we are all being honest then post some photos of the man first at foremost to save everyones time.

Boston MA
Username hidden
(1 post)
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 4
Start   25 to 34 of 34 
TOPIC: What is up with everyone's profiles not having pics of the men