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@bandp - Yes, women are hot. :) But as a straight couple, I MUST see pictures of the guy (and NOT just his penis, pls) before I agree to a meet.

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Unless the woman is looking exclusively for girl-girl play, of course they will want to see pictures of the guy. If all I can see is a picture of a hot babe, and the height and weight of the guy doesn't look very HWP, red flag that perhaps he doesn't look too good. And I want to be attracted to the guy I end up playing with, so of course I need to see some pics. I'd rather see lots of pictures of both, don't care about the weight (obviously, because we don't post ours...), because it really isn't going to tell me much anyway - just show me the pics!

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Honestly, guys just look silly, myself included. Woman are hot and that is what most couples and singles want to see.

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Wifeisn2, that's something we never considered and it makes a lot of sense. Maybe the other profiles out there with no pictures of the man are only looking for G/G play as well.

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Depends on the interests, too.

For example, we are only interested in girl play, while the guys watch. So we don't have pics of my husband because we feel like it doesn't really matter, tbh. (even tho he is drop dead gorgeous)

Posting pics of him might give the wrong idea.

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Actually, since the wife here is BI, we both look for the woman's pic first. Then we go to the weight/age listings, then check to see how far away they live. If we get that far, then we ask them to open the rest of their pics.

The screening process is always lengthy.

We really don't get on this site to gawk at the lead pics. But we always hope ours attracts the right kind of attention!

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Welcome Yesplease! We probably have a hundred pics of Mrs amantes for every one of the Mr, lol. Many of us need to see a public pic of the guy before we'll reply to a profile. The definition of awkward is when you reply to a profile saying you're interested in meeting them, then get his picture and have to tell them you've changed your mind.

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Most likely the men are taking the pictures. It's hard to be on both sides of the camera lens! I've been taking pictures of my wife for years before joining SLS so most everything is from my POV. You shouldn't hesitate to ask for pictures of the man, it will force the Mrs. to take up portraiture. Although, as the Mr. I would feel very uncomfortable assuming the sexy poses that seem to come so naturally to Mrs. I would suggest being specific as to what you would like to see, i.e., face, chest, penis. Just don't' expect a "glamor shot!"

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JP - welcome to the fora.

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I completely agree. When we first starting looking I asked my mine where is the pics of the men and he even asked the same question. It made me feel that it was a site for the men to pic there ladies. Well we are in the lifestyle for couples and our relationship so come on guys Buck up and share the spotlight with your beautiful ladies

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