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Kieran, You'll find that your post is a very common comment on blogs and forums. I don't think I've ever actually seen anyone who won't post the male pic give a good answer as to why. Because there is no good answer. Why is there no photo or a photo so distant or hazy that you can't know if you're even looking at a person? We understand protecting identity, so faces can be cut or take photos that have your tattoos covered. But if we don't see the male half then likely there won't even be a courtesy response, certainly no effort on our part to make a connection.

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i know what you mean, I received and email today saying the problem was fixed and tried to upload a profile pic but guess what???????????? No pic can be seen, and I'm getting frustrated because I'm a paid member and can't even get a darn pic posted. Makes me think about renewing my subscription in the next few months.

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@u4sex2 - LOL! I just upload a pix last nite for our public gallery. It got approved , but doesn't show up. I just get that little "broken link" icon-thingy. Argh...another round of emails with Tech Support....

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It a tech thing, I have tried several pics and they don't show up. All I get is a blank page. I've contacted tech support and waiting to hear from them. This is the only site I've had a problem with loading a pic. So hopefully they will have an answer for me soon.

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@uforsex - Your picture won't load??? You mean it technically will not upload your picture? Or the pic is not approved? If it's not approved, use another pic. If its a tech issue, email Cust Serv. They helped us when we had photo issues.

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The problem I have is that I can't get my pic to load to the site, there for leaves me out in the cold without the chance to meet anyone and become friends. Truly a disappointment.

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I'm too ugly to post my photo on here. We hope her hotness is enough to get another couple interested and pray they'll overlook my hideousness just to get to her.

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SEXYCLP,

Welcome to the "lifestyle" as well as the forums. I did take a close look at your photos as well as your profile. I think you've done an excellent job on both accounts. I sincerely do understand your need for privacy but will mention you have limited yourself to a very small pool of people who will be willing to meet you sight unseen. Add to that your preference for Soft Swinging and you've got your work cut out for you . Be patient, don't get discouraged...get involved ! Meet & Greets and/or swing parties and clubs will be very helpful if you chose to not share face photos. Most of us are far too old and far to cynical to meet blind dates. Trust I am not criticizing your preferences nor trying to discourage but merely trying to make you aware of the hurtles ahead of you. We all struggle to find like minded people who we both find attractive and who also share our preferences so you are not alone. I wish you happiness and may all your fantasies become realities.

Mrs Sav

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Before fleshing out our profile, we spent a considerable amount of time perusing these forums with regard to all aspects of the lifestyle. Human sexuality as it relates to the lifestyle is very interesting to us, as are the "nuts and bolts" of creating high-quality lifestyle connections. Two recurring themes regarding profile deficiencies seemed to be prevalent: the "fudging" of age/height/weight. And images showing just close-up/selective bits of either partner, and the general lack of showing the male partner at all. We chose our profile words with care, and our images (all recent) with the intention of visually conveying "our essence" in a way which was both discreet and comfortable for us. The two pics of us together, if one cares to spend a moment looking at them, convey the deep and loving connection we feel as a couple. We enjoyed every moment of crafting our profile - it felt very sexy, made us think jointly about our goals here, and definitely made us feel close.

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thanks livewire :)

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