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TOPIC: What is the posted Speed Limit
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talking to eachother during your own lovemaking has helped with us, open fantasizing, so you have an image in your head while communicating it to eachother, very sexy, but also you have more of an idea of what could happen, and if it's truly a turn on for the both of you....also perhaps moving past threesomes and going soft swap with a couple would help. that way your wife can see you with another women, without the "fear" of intercourse. if she enjoyed watching you soft play with another woman then talk about full swap. everything is a progression or evolution. sometimes we play every week, sometimes we take a little break, but we always communicate. we have evolved from 3somes, to soft, to full and we like the fact that we can do any of those now. so sometimes we do 3somes. some weeks we may soft swap and some weekends we full swap. it's whatever we are both comfortable with at the moment. renee

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male half here.. It sounds like your off to a good start. From the way you explained it, she had a great time and you did too. I always thought its very important for the female of the pair to really enjoy herself that 'first' time. ( Suz did lol) When we first started in the lifestyle, we were given some advise to help out thru some of the questions we had. Rule 1. 100% open communication is a must between you and your partner!! Rule 2. See Above :) Talk openly with your wife about all aspects of the lifestyle, the frequency in which she likes to play, what she really enjoys and what she isnt comfortable with. Tell her your thoughts and feelings. Find the middle ground... Maybe being in a 'slighly' different part of the house wherein you can still see each other if you choose to and her comfort level isnt diminished, but her images of you arent 'smashing her in the face'. lol Have fun!!

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we agree talk !!! talk to each other about whats on your mind. holding in your feelings will probly hurt in the long run (just our opinion mind you ).its better to be open and honest rather then the other way around !! good luck..... somefun

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First of all the time between get togethers varies. Sometimes you hit it off so well you're ready again in a week or so. Sometimes a month or maybe not again. We've experience all these scenarios. Usually one couple will contact the other to let them know they had a good time and then leave the ball in the other couple court, so to speak. It's really up to the couples in question and usually works itself out. Second, do not be surprised if you wife doesn't care to see you with another woman. The Mrs. here does not care to see it but the Mr. loves to see her with another man. Same room does not always happen but when it does she is ok with it, It's just not her favorite. Besides she is usually busy enough to not think about what he's doing. You just have to be patient and yes COMMUNICATE

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