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TOPIC: What format needs to be followed to enjoy a site such as this

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User Details are only visible to members.	Without reading your profile, I can tell you that marketing yourself is the best way to meet others. You need to make yourself special and as the previous poster said market yourself to both people. You are asking to share his wife and if he is not interested you'll get nowhere. Go to local Meet and Greets, join some groups local to you. Enhance your profile to let others know what you want as well as what you're looking for. Respect and patience is the key and the worst thing you can do is to whinne that nobody is answering your email broadcasts. Spend time reading single male profiles and couples profiles, read the forums there are pleantyu of threads with advice form others on how to approch couples. get involved in the chat room. Good luck, but some diligent homework will be rewarding.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9688 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You have only been on the site since Aug 21st...you will find you need much more patience if you want to get anywhere, especially with couples where you will need to build a connection with 2 people who each probably have busy schedule. Two months or more to meet a potential play partner is not all that uncommon. There isn'a blueprint as such but there are some things along the way you can do to improve your chances. Here's some suggestions though: - Expand your profile. You don't say a lot about yourself. Say a lot more about your personality not just sexual preferences or fantasy. Craft it in such a way that you will be appealing to all kinds of people. (The people you could have the most fun with might surprise you.) How do you like to spend your free time when you aren't having sex? Do you have a strong appreciation for music or know every line from every movie? By showing your interests, you are allowing people who read your profile to find things they might share in common with you. This is a first step to building connection. - Have you ever done any networking for a new job or business venture? What activities seemed to have the best result? This could give you some clues as to the best ways for you to find companions in the lifestyle. Maybe you represent yourself much better in person than online. If that's the case go to clubs or events. Get to know the hosts so they can learn who you are. It may take some time before you can get in because you are a single male but why not give it a shot. If you are shy in crowds, aim to go to, be invited to house parties rather than club events...Do you see where I'm going with this? Once you do start conversations with other potential play mates, take the time to get to know them before suggesting you meet. Show that you will be respectful and you are not in a hurry. Part of being respectful is asking about boundaries, desires and wants before you meet. Be sure to clarify if the other person(s) play on first meet or not. Some do, some don't. Again, it's about setting expectations correctly. Then, see where it leads. You have a great smile in your pictures and that is certainly a good start. Good luck in your search, Shannon
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User Details are only visible to members.	There is no blueprint, only patience.
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TOPIC: What format needs to be followed to enjoy a site such as this