What do you think is the problem: Swingers Discussion 2092571021

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What do you think is the problem: Swingers Discussion 2092571021

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User Details are only visible to members.	Kick_Ass, I could be wrong but I only see one post that thinks you are not attractive enough, and to him, that is the problem, as you ask in your OP. I don't see anyone else who said that to you or thinks that. There are alot of people that would think that about me, and some who might not. I'm sorry you feel so bad about the other replies. This is a part of this LS for 'all' of us. I brought up the height thing because I've seen threads about people not, or only, liking tall people or short people, therefore thinking perhaps that might be an issue and just removing that pic, might help. (I didn't even think it was a bad pic)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Now we can't find a date to save our lives." No wonder you'r so grumpy lately sweetart! lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow! :o I believe my post stated the obvious and certainly didn't need to be re-hashed...talking about trying to rub salt in a wound. To clarify, I was not asking the forum if was I ugly, in fact my post more than implied that I knew I was the problem. The question to the forum through my post was meant to be a request to both critique our profile and to ask for any advice some more veteran members could offer to ensure better and / or more consistent responses. Perhaps I should have tried to be more clear. Regardless, I used to not have a problem being uglier than the wife, but now, I'm not so sure. ;) No, that is BS, I would always want to be the more unattractive one if you know what I mean. But, Gawddamn. @ Kinddraggon...yeah I removed the pic after I received a PM stating that it was so awful that it needed to be removed immediately. I wasn't a big fan of that pic...my wife was, but anyways, if it was THAT bad (I do respect honesty). Also, I don't really think the height difference is a huge deal...our sizes both for height and weight are accurate and most people have responded well for the fact that I'm 6 ft and my wife is so tiny. I suppose she's considered a spinner being so small, definitely not a bad thing in my book...but different strokes for different folks. Can't do anything about any height issue...lol. Anyways, thanks to those who offered real advice... However, I now know why there are so many deleted topics around here. My self-confidence is now brimming to overflowing.
Valdosta GA			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kick_Ass... I think you are both attractive and don't think your pics are bad. Keep trying to take better ones of course. I was wondering though, if your height's or height difference bothers anyone, and I just saw that that pic is not there anymore. Do you think that might be something to do with it too?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, I figure why be negative? People already get enough rejection and negative feedback here on SLS. (We sure do.) Sometimes reading a positive comment can make one's day. Kick_Ass - I think you are like most men and don't take good pictures normally. Not everyone has Channing Tatum or Taylor Lautner's photogenic qualities, bone structure....or their abs! LOL But that's ok! Just keep taking pictures and picking the ones where you look the best. You may have to take 100 pix to get a handful that'll work. Don't stress too much. Just keep trying different things and eventually something will click. Lemme know when you take a round of pix. I'd love to see them!
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (441 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	In stead of trying to be nice, maybe you should point him to all the threads abut people asking "what do we do when they open their pics and iwe are not attractive" . we could start with the one that's going now, about how to tell someone they are too hairt.If they are interested until he opens his pics and then they dissappear,and when he puts his pics in the public galleries and people stop writing,of course it him.no if ands or buts about. hell if I move my pic to the private galleries, we get e-mails from the hottest couples. as soon as I open the private pics they dissapear, is it me. you bet your sweet ass it is. How do i know,well the profile didn't change,my wife's pis didn't change. what changed?they got a look at me, hell that's just common sence. my suggestion pick couples with less attractive women that will find you attractive or stop looking. sorry but the truth is the truth
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@kickass - I peeked at your profile. Your written profile is just fine. The Mrs' pix are great! Yours are just ok. It's not you, you're a cutie. :) But your pix are not as flattering as they could be. (Sorry...just being honest, but trying to be helpful.) My suggestion is for you guys to take some better, sexier pix of you. I know you got some swag in there! Show it off! And not only cck-shots!!! Good grief...I hate profiles where the only pix of the Mr is of his cck. Pls, I know what a penis looks like. LOL Best of luck to you guys!
Wailuku HI			Username hidden (441 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kick ass you may be right. we have been in the lifestyle for over a 1/4 of a century, in that time i have gone from fit and trim to out of shape to fit and trim to back to were I am today. I can tell you when i was fit and trim we were playing every weekend, sometime 2 or 3 times a week,we would get 3 or 4 invites to house parties a week, i could walk i to a club and get approached by sexy women.(life in the lifestyle was good) Now we can't find a date to save our lives. But hey "it is what it is".
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2201 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with all the posts below, and I think your wife is adorable!! ;) Stay patient and welcome to the forums!
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kick_Ass... A SM perspective....Since I can't see your profile and photos, I have no reason to doubt what my Northern and Midwestern friends have stated. I can only add that you really have no idea what's going on in someone's life. Commitments with the ex, kids, grad school, work, sports, etc., do get in the way and as much as I want to believe that every person who emails me is hanging by their SLS mailbox, waiting with bated breath for my response, I know they're not. I will also say that I'm normally not the initiator of emails. So, I understand the potential frustration. I have had similar inquiries. I've responded just as you have...and nothing. Weeks later though, more than a few of the nothings have become something. I remember one having to do with a new job, and another, the passing of a parent or grandparent. Life happens. Be patient. Again, my 2 cents...
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