115
What do you think is the problem : Swingers Discussion 2092571011
Busy Swingers Forum - everything you always wanted to know about swingers.
SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs

Busy Swingers Forum

Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.

Create A Free Account

HELP
FORUMSGeneral DiscussionsGetting StartedWhat do you think is the problem
TOPIC: What do you think is the problem
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 ... More 
Start   11 to 20 of 30   End
User Details are only visible to members.
"My point is, KickAss, you can not know why, and I suggest that you should not care why they disappear if they do. " ------------------------ That's the single male motto! Learn it, live it, love it! LOL

Good luck!

Jacksonville FL
 
 
Username hidden
(2271 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
For many of us, we have been years, even decades since we were part of the dating scene, replete with its many rejections, real and imagined. We sometimes roll our eyes at how Junior High School it all seems. We have been known to reject couples because we felt they were TOO sexy, lol. Actually, more like that they seem to be running on a higher octane fuel and we just don't feel like we are a good match for us old hippies. My point is, KickAss, you can not know why, and I suggest that you should not care why they disappear if they do. Good luck

Danville VT
 
 
Username hidden
(7484 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
It's all good Sweettart... This is a frustrating endeavor at times, but we still have had a lot of fun thinking about . Anyways, thanks to everyone for your comments!

Douglas GA
 
 
Username hidden
(4 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
I say just be yourself. There is nothing wrong with that.

New Braunfels TX
 
 
Username hidden
(78 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
holy shit you people spend way too much time thinking about this. Wow. Fuck, who knows what the answer is. In the end you have each other. If others do not find you attractive or funny or interesting or whatever...fuck em...go home and have fun anyways. When you depend on another person, a stranger like most swingers who have no idea what the fuck they want to begin with....for your fun...you are going to be miserable. We go to a vanilla bar every fri. and sat night with vanilla friends. And we have a blast every time we go. Why? Because we enjoy each other and go to have fun.

San Marcos TX
 
 
Username hidden
(23960 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Oh and i also what to apologize. I must be hanging out in the political forums to much again.


 
 
Username hidden
(1295 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Yea I know I'm being a little grumpy. Its also that his problem hit close to home.My wive has also been kind enough to try and take the blame. But i took credit a long time ago for not being able to attract the type of couples that my wife found attractive. it's happens to a lot of us who are fortunate to have married up. But he did ask what the problem was, and basically allready knew the answer.


 
 
Username hidden
(1295 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Kick_Ass,

-Have to agree with KD... I thought you were seeking advice and the only truly negative comment came from someone who can't, or chooses not to spell correctly.

If this were easy, we'd all be too busy and too tired to read and respond to requests for help. LOL!

Have fun,

BT

New Orleans LA
 
 
Username hidden
(6461 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
Kick_Ass, welcome to the forums.

I can't see your profile and therefore can't comment on that. But I didn't read the responses here as saying anything more than that you should take some more pics; a couple of the responses sounded quite complimentary. Also, someone mentioned that you haven't been on SLS very long, so be patient.

I hide my fugly face pics in a private gallery, so as not to run peeps off from the outset. :) good luck and I hope things pick up.

p.s., Mrs. KickAss is cute as a button. I can safely say that if you brought her on a vacation to NOLA, neither BridgeTender nor I would turn down a meeting, regardless of what you look like. :-)

Belle Chasse LA
 
 
Username hidden
(10350 posts)
User Details are only visible to members.
K-A-C, Your profile and pics are fine. Because you're so new you're probably getting a lot of mail from pervs and singles posing as couples that just want to see your private pics, then disappear. Try blocking free members and don't open pics for anybody without certs - at least until you fine tune your BS detector. A great way to get started is to attend a local party or M&G. You will meet some real people and it will be a big confidence builder because most of the dudes will be uglier than you are, LOL.

Virginia Beach VA
 
 
Username hidden
(313 posts)
GoTo Page: 1 2 3 ... More 
Start   11 to 20 of 30   End
TOPIC: What do you think is the problem