What are we doing wrong: Swingers Discussion 215856109

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User Details are only visible to members.	Not that you two would be into an older couple.....however, two things right off the top that would stop us: "420" friendly and you both are smokers. We are not into any illegal drugs. We have career positions to think of and can't even chance "second hand buzz" or being caught in a situation. Also, we don't like the taste of kissing someone who smokes. It would do you both good, health wise to quit. I'm very bisexual, and finding "real" bisexual women in the LS is very difficult! There are a lot of women out there that fake it to please their men. Good luck!
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (108 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks, TotalBabe!! I truly appreciate the feedback! Great tips...thanks so much for that, too! Will remain patient because, I too, am wondering if the single bi-female exists Hahaha. We will put your excellent advice to good use. Thanks again! Got the boots from AMI clubwear and I LOVE them!!
Pomfret Center CT			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	TlcSbc, welcome to the fora! Well, there is nothing wrong with you. So stop worrying. What's going on is the fact that there are hardly any single bi females in the lifestyle. Those ladies you contacted were most likely fake. And if they were not, I can tell you that they are overwhelmed with emails and can pick and choose whomever they want to. Well, fake ones get their share of emails too, I am sure. There might be a few real single bi females only. Now, consider that some of these few may be interested in single men only. That leaves you with so few bi women, you might never find one. You may have better luck trying to find a soft swap couple who is into FF play. Please know, that single bi females are called unicorns for a reason; no one is really sure they actually exist. Lol. I do like your profile, but it needs a little cleanup. You are paid members now, so the part about being free members and sending pictures to outside email should be deleted. Also, the description of you should be moved to "describe yourself" part of your profile. However, please, let me assure you, that has nothing to do with your lack of results. As newbies, some people might steer clear from you, because newbies tend to have jealousy issues and sometimes they might not know what they really want. Please, don't let that discourage you. Try to get out to some Meet & Greets in your area. Go to the club, if there is one nearby. Don't expect anything, because that's when disappointments happen. Plan a fun night for yourselves. And if something happens... Consider it a bonus. Try to keep it light and fun. When you feel it stops being fun, time to step back from it and take a little break. Your search will require lots of patience and yes, thick skin. You have been a member for about a month only. Finding a single bi female might take you a year. I do hope you will be able to connect with someone sooner, though. Rejection is more common than acceptance and the lifestyle is very shallow. Just be yourselves, and try to make it fun. Good luck! And when you find yourselves involved in some sexy fun, please, feel free to share with us in the fora. :) And are those the same boots I am wearing in this picture...?
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (1927 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi all!! Hubby and I are pretty new to the lifestyle; we've had threesomes and enjoy that a great deal. That's pretty much what led to joining the site and creating a profile here. I see that people have viewed our profile and we have emailed at least 15 different ladies expressing our interest in their profile and getting to know each other better, etc. My frustration is that although we've been viewed a lot and have reached out, we've not received any responses to a single email...nor has anyone emailed us to express interest in our profile. I consider myself and my husband to be fairly attractive and I tried to make our profile interesting so what are we doing wrong? Any opinion's would be appreciated!! I have thick skin so please be as honest as you need to be. Thanks!!!
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