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I (male half) find these ardent quests for the elusive single female kind of funny. I realize that one of the ultimate male fantasies is girl/girl action, and threesomes, whether with an extra guy or woman involved, are really hot. But just as erotic, in my book, are couples playing with the girls having some side fun on their own. Women are far less inhibited when it comes to opening up to a little "bi-curiosity", and when everyone is clicking, it's fantastic. No knock on single women, but I met several as a single guy here, and too many of them I wouldn't date even in the vanilla sense. I also think that most SFs seem to enjoy and are more comfortable with a nice, secure couple. We're starting to meet a few as a couple, and have been largely quite impressed. Just my experience.

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Regionally speaking, almost every single-female advertising in our area is moderately to seriously overweight.

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I am going to guess this is one of those things that's probably regional.

Does it really matter in regards to the term, through? I still find in appropriate.. The ultimate fantasy, that which you desire to find, seeking the rarity and not often if ever finding it.

That is what many couples seem to be doing. For some the unicorn is not the single woman but something else that would fulfill fantasies.

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Sheer numbers? There probably are more SMs than SFs in the lifestyle.

But SFs are hardly rare. I've met wayyyyyyyyy too many of them to be considered rare. Maybe they seem that way if someone lives in an area where there are fewer of them, but I travel so the pool is much wider.

But they're not rare enough to refer to them as unicorns. That term describes a mythical creature. Refering to SFs as unicorns elevates them to a unrealistic status. They're people.

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Aren't single females, ones who are real women and really meeting people, much fewer in number than couples and single men?

It seems they are hard to hook up with too.

The term unicorn might apply.

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Looking forward to watching this movie. Thanks for the recommendation. ;-)

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Unicorn is a ridiculous term. There are plenty of SFs who swing and/or are in the lifestyle.

Swinging used to be just couples swapping partners with other couples. Now, swinging includes SFs and SMs for one-on-one, 3somes, 4somes, and moresomes.

Consensual, non-monogamous sex. That's all it is.

And it's a lot of fun.

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I'd like to hear more about your 'Room in Rome' specialties. :-)

-w

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unicorn is actually the term we would use for you. :-D

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I agree with JackDarlene's definition. My wife and I are probably one of the 'tamest' couples here in regards to what we are interested in (not full swap, f/f play only) , and yet, we still consider ourselves to be swingers. We appreciate open mindedness of the swinger mentality.

To us, it just means that we're not bound by the traditional rules of a monogamous relationships.

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