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TOPIC: What's your estimate on percentage of real people here

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User Details are only visible to members.	Hi all. I've been trying to decide which forum would be the best to post this in, and I guess this is as good as any and probably is more apropos. Though I know patience is a virtue, and I don't mind being patient, what I DO mind are the inconsiderate people who provide no response WHATSOEVER. I mean, I know not all people are going to click, even if it is just an emai. However, at least say "no thank you", "you're not our type", "yeah, you are what we say we're looking for, but thanks, no thanks". I mean how hard is it to reply? How hard is common decency? I thought this was a site for open-minded adults to find other like-minded adults. What I have found so far are people who may be open-minded (in their own minds) but far from being adults. Imagine people treating you this way in the "regular" world. You'd be pissed. I'm not asking for a slew of offers to all of a sudden appear in my INBOX (though it would be nice, smile). All I'm asking is that if someone makes contact, whether you're interested or not, respond. Be adult and be respectful of others. And to the one person who all I did was compliment and had no intention on meeting up with, a simple "Thank you" would have sufficed. Now if I may step down off of my soap box, I have laundry to do.
Lafayette MS			Username hidden (15 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Every single profile is real. Just because they bail out on playing with us, does not make them not real. To say that they're fake would mean that we're simply jaded.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lately we're real hit and miss on here with communication. I chat in the forums alone but dont interact with people unless we're together on here. We both work long days 7 days a week lately. For me, I get back from a 12 hour day and im rearing to go. She on the other hand is ready for PJs and the couch. So I have considered taking down our profile or just wording it that we're not very active lately. But just when i go to do that, shes interested again. The way we end up playing is that when we DO get on here to check email, the people we are really interested, we give a private email to and ask them to contact us there. That email goes to her phone and she does answer it. So when someone emails her there from here, we will tend to end up meeting them pretty quick because they will chat back and forth and thats when she'll call me during the day and say "so and so" wants to meet tonight, do ya wanna? Well of course I do....lol But most people dont take that step so we end up exchanging one email here every few weeks and it goes nowhere since we just dont make it on the site that often. But we're up front about that too. When we respond to someone and i think its in our profile, that if we send you an alternate form of contact, please use that since we dont make it here often. But like anything else, we'll do that, then come back to 5 emails from that person on here.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're very upfront about our scheduling when it comes to meetups. Given the fact that I travel frequently for work and we have kids makes meetups tough to schedule. We're happy to give out both our cell numbers to talk individually and prove we're both real and interested. To those who are willing to deal with the timing issues, when we meet up... we often play on the first meet. To those who have met with us together a number of times... we will play individually (more often meaning her meeting with them unicorn style.) To some... because there is a lot of email back and forth for months, we're "not real." To us it's a judge of character. If you can't wait or are just pressed to get her to play individually, we're not interested.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Great post JOEY.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (61 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So far we are batting about 8 outta 10 as far as real swingers interested in meeting. Most of our contacts have been online. the few fakers were single guys with couples profiles posing. we figured them out real quick with just a couple of emails. Makes me wonder if Pennsylvania is one of the better states to swing out of. Havent met any fakers from here yet. We live right next to the maryland line but have yet to really connect with anyone from there but 1 SM. Of course right now our play schedule is so full that we arent even really interested in even pursuing others so most emails are getting no thanks anyway.
Delta PA			Username hidden (124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Agree with everything said by other posters. Real just has so many definitions. We're real. We DO play. But we play with a fraction of a percent of the people who email us. To them. We may be "fakes" Like others have said. What we call a "fake" is someone who has no intention of actually meeting and playing. And we include those who think they do but dont have the balls to. In that case we would say "most" single guys are "fakes" And a LOT of couples. For the reason stated. Its just the guy doing the talking, then at the last minute he has to convince her to go along with plans that he already made with people he has been chatting with a while. We get guys who constantly "want to meet" and I think they ejaculate the second we say "when and where?" Because immediately they "have busy schedules" or they accept the invite and most back out at the last minute. Real people. But we call them fakes. I have always said that honesty is greatly lacking in this lifestyle online. We have gotten to the point where, from experience, we can read people pretty well pretty quick. So we're quick to cut people off when they give off certain signals. Since we spent many years falling for BS or waiting patiently for meets that were never going to happen from the start. We would have all the patience in the world for honest people. New to it, not sure if you want to go through with it? No problem. We'll gladly chat, if youre honest about that. Single guy not really single? For us, not an automatic deal killer. So tell us. Then we'll understand why you may cancel. There is nothing wrong with being shy. Having reservations. Wanting to get comfortable. Or not being sure if you really want to do it. JUST FREAKING SAY SO. Dont come across as "ready to go" experienced swingers and we wont lose patience when you IM us every night "wanting to meet" then disappear until tomorrow night. Its just very frustrating when people are not upfront with their intentions and reservations.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	copy and pasting What's your guess on percentage of real people (or people that are serious about meeting)? They are all real people unless you believe that paranoid Sara Conner wacko. So my answer real people 100 percent . Serious about meeting after, full picture disclosure and play level interest disclosure. Newbies 1 out of 5 Rookies least then one year playing time 3 out of 5 Veterans *** 5 out of 5 It just depends on what you decide to pick from the menu and if it's being served or not. Best of luck ~smile~
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (2136 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Best of luck Jg and if you ever decide to take the plunge, feel free to give us a shout...we're right up the road. oh yea...redheads, yummmmm ;-) Mr Sin
Copperas Cove TX			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Previous not precipous, stupid iPhone spell correcter.
Harker Heights TX			Username hidden (40 post)

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