We are new to LS HELP!: Swingers Discussion 2022441011

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User Details are only visible to members.	@ weekend warriors: absolutely you may steal it, i am glad you like it! thank you everyone for your sound advice! getting ready for a first date tonight (meet and greet) so hopefully i can put all the good advice to the test, and have some awesome fun!!!
Nashville TN			Username hidden (5 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Doing new stuff can be scary, especially when it feels like everyone else knows the rules and you don't. Don't sweat it, we've All been there. The best thing that the two of you can do is to talk, Talk, and then Talk some more, about your experiences, your fears, your surprises, and what you want out of the LS. Even if you end up deciding that the LS isn't right for your relationship, being able to talk about things will never be bad for you! Don't let others push you in directions that you don't want to go, but try to remain open to exploring new ground too. You may surprise yourselves with what you find that you hadn't expected. Use your LS experiences to grow your own relationship by incorporating them into what you already have, making things even better for the two of you. Trust your instincts if they tell you that something isn't quite right. There are freaks out there, as well as SM's pretending to be a couple (she's never available to chat or meet, but he's Very available, etc.). Have Fun! :-) If it isn't fun, why are you doing it?
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User Details are only visible to members.	Oh, and ignore Akron. ;) ==================== Grave mistake. Do as you please. ;-)
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User Details are only visible to members.	Okay, first of all I don't think there is any way of knowing whether someonen is safe or not but obviously listen to your intuition. If you sense bad energy that you can't pinpoint, trust it. Your chances of getting in a dangerous situation here are probably slightly higher than getting hit by a car while getting your mail, I wouldn't worry too much about that. As far as telling people you're not interested without hurting their feelings, that's not your responsibility. And thank God for that because rejection can be a little crushing for some no matter how you go about doing it but it's not your responsibility to shelter anyone (much less near strangers) from the reality of life. Rejection sucks but it's up to them how they respond to it.
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User Details are only visible to members.	thank you so much everyone! (excluding akron)
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User Details are only visible to members.	A lot of swingers like to play Guitar Hero for Xbox. Maybe start there.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Welcome to the forum FantaziaShanique The best advice might be to slow down, read a bunch of the threads here in the forums then dip your toes in slowly. Go to a M&G with no plan to play. Exchange emails and pics BEFORE giving out your number and maybe most importantly, go at the pace that makes the two of you comfortable, not the other couple or single. Good luck, have fun and let us know how it's going!
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User Details are only visible to members.	We prefer to meet in public. Sometimes it is at a club but most of the time, it is over a light dinner. Talk to them and see how things go. Just relax and enjoy. Allow things to happen.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Hi everyone! My boyfriend and I are looking for some advice. We are completely and utterly new to all of this (this being the lifestyle), after considering trying it only 3 days ago. What is protocol on setting up a meeting? We have had several couples and singles interested in us, but how do you make it a safe meeting, how do you know what to expect? Is it better to meet at a club? We have asked the couples/singles what they prefer, told them what we were interested in and all that, however, we are still gray in some areas. Is it okay to be friends with the couple/single after we have played together? How do we know who is safe, and who might be crazy enough to tie us up in their house and murder us (ok that was a little exaggerated, but you know what I mean). Also, when you do get in contact with a couple (like we did just recently) and find out you are not attracted to them by the emails of naked pics that they sent you, how do you tell them you are not interested in meeting them at the club on Friday anymore and to loose your number without hurting their feelings? Tell me everything about this that you can so we don't screw up! Thank you!
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