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TOPIC: Was it hard for you to see your spouse or parter with another lover
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I am amazed at how much I love seeing her play. Even more, I'm amazed at how much more we seem to appreciate each other when we're together.

This hobby has been good for us. After more than 30 years together, we're like kids again.

The Amazing Mizz T makes me happy on so many levels. My proudest achievement in life is that I married well.

Charleston WV
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The 1st time was INCREDIBLY HOT and after 8 odd years its INCREDIBLY HOT.

Santee CA
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lol mr d it makes sense.

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Louisville KY
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It has been many years ago and a few partners ago, but the first time, I was a bit younger and it wasnt hard but I also had to step back and say hey this is all fun and nothing to worry about.

After it was all done when I was able to talk to my other half, we both laughed about it, communicated, re-assured each other and life was good.

I think even today, we both enjoy the heck out of it, but once we get home we talk and snuggle and make love (not just sex) and that in itself gives us the closeness and comfort we so love.

Now if that makes sense to anyone, let me know, cause when I read it, it looks like a jumble mess of emotions, but who knows :-p

Murfreesboro TN
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My husband and I have the most incredible relatioship. We have great communication, we are best friends and we have total trust. I guess I am just trying to cover all bases before just "JUMPING IN". I am feeling all these butterflies or nerves and am just trying to sort out all these new feelings. I am so excited to explore this new adventure with my husband. All our lives we are taught what relationships are "supposed" to be like. Swinging is definately not the norm. At the same time how can something that is so fun be bad.......right. I am a confident woman and the fact that I have nerves about our first experience, makes me feel a little out of my element. LOL, I almost feel like a youngster again.

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It's been many years sense the first time but I can still see it in my mind if I think about it. It was hot then and the memory is still hot now. I love watching Mrs. Treat in action.

Mercersburg PA
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No, No it was hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sparta TN
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Like she said, seeing it was erotic. Hearing it was a whole other world. It drives me crazy. What a turn on.

Houston TX
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When you first began swinging, did you have a hard time watching your spouse or partner with another lover? If so how did you cope with these feelings?

Auburn CA
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