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User Details are only visible to members.	In the beginning, we both had weirdness when watching the other with another. How did we cope? Practice makes perfect! With each new experience it got easier and easier until it became really exciting.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (293 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think it was a little hard for Shelli to watch me with another woman the first time or two. However I really enjoy seeing her with another guy, always have. The look on her face right before she cums is priceless.
Willow Grove PA			Username hidden (47 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are so amazed by the different approaches. They all seem to work as long as they were thought out by the couple. While we would not do separate rooms, it worked for one posting couple. Our belief is that we are a team. I want to see what she does because I want to enjoy the eroticism. and she wants to see me, In seeing each other there is also no worry about what happened away from your eyes. We think it is more open... but to each his own. This thread or idea is in about one out of every three topics here on SLS. Watching your mate with somebody else is a HUGE part of swinging. I will say this... If you can not handle seeing your partner having an out-of-mind blow-you-away orgasm with another person... think twice before entering!!!!! But friends, when you see it, you'll realize it is simple and pure biology... in a good relationship, it's no threat to what you have.
Greenville SC			Username hidden (354 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It took us a year or two to get where we could stand to see each other with another person. Our solution was to use separate rooms. After we had enough experience to know swinging wasn't a threat to our relationship, it didn't matter anymore and we've seen each other plenty of times with others. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8165 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	the money shot, never forget that one, and had the same results for me, and th this day, think its awesome to see her recieve a cock, and work it to the end, so to speak, and most times i cam still concetrate on my woman im with, go for the money shot, lol, always
Charlestown IN			Username hidden (186 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	probably a bit. the first time was 1987 and we were not married. i actually had visions of swinging and/or swapping already and this just happened one night. it was fun then but there was a twinge of bother in me. somehow as we grew it not only did not bother me anymore i was turned on by it, as was she. that night from 1987 is now a treasured memory probably because you always remember your first, right? we are very happily married and the other couple is also very happily married some 23 years later. we see them alot now but do not engage in any naked fun. when i see him standing next to my wife now i think about it and it is still hot. can't believe it once bothered me.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (1686 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	On our first time I didn't actually watch her, but could hear her and her friend in the next room. The ongoing squeaking of their bed as they fucked was the most erotic sound I ever heard! And of course when she came back to our bed in the morning was some of the best sex we ever had! -Steve
Santa Fe NM			Username hidden (39 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The first time I saw her with another, it was another woman and it was amazing! Hotter than I ever imagined it would be, for sure. The first time with another man, I did not have quite the same feeling. It wasn't really playing but more of an "uninvited grabbing" and I'm sure that had quite a lot to do with it, but I was a little uneasy about it in general. So at first it wasn't all that easy, but as we had a little more experience and continued the communication, things are great. I love seeing her with other men and women. So we are in the minority I guess from reading in the posts when we say that it wasn't immediately the biggest turn on, it just took us a little longer ;)
Appleton WI			Username hidden (66 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	For me the first time I saw my hubby kiss another woman it was kinda weird, I felt uncomfortable but the first time we actually played it didn't bother me to see him with the other lady. Weird I know LOL Mrs. Voya
Detroit MI			Username hidden (418 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It wasn't hard at the time; turned me on big-time. But it was hard when we got home and in the morning (I'm speaking of "hard" in a positive way here people). I believe if one feels secure in the relationship, there is no problem; or, if one (and it happens), isn't that much "into" their spouse or partner. Just my thoughts.
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

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