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TOPIC: Vetting

Created by: kinddraggon Original Starting post for this thread:
I understand what vetting means, but would like to hear more about your particular vetting process with males... and how might it be different for females, if at all? And how is it different when meeting someone through chats and/or emails, vs. meeting at a club or house party? (...thinking its easier to ask more questions via email, than bombarding someone with questions over a drink (or have had some already,lol) ...appreciate the importance of this, but not really sure of how and what to do, or ask, or look for.

Created by: kinddraggon
Original Starting post for this thread:

I understand what vetting means, but would like to hear more about your particular vetting process with males... and how might it be different for females, if at all? And how is it different when meeting someone through chats and/or emails, vs. meeting at a club or house party? (...thinking its easier to ask more questions via email, than bombarding someone with questions over a drink (or have had some already,lol)
...appreciate the importance of this, but not really sure of how and what to do, or ask, or look for.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Wrap your ASS in Fiberglass....lol
Houghton Lake MI			Username hidden (397 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I want to vet RDY123 myself! ))))))))))))))))
Delta PA			Username hidden (124 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Leeza and TotalBabe cover all the big things. I'm sure they have quite a bit of experience vetting as a couple and female. One other thing I'd suggest is checking certs and then asking the person you're thinking about meeting if they'd mind if you contacted their certifiers - sounds like an interview, but really, that's what this is. I've done this a few times and I've always learned something I hadn't known through the profile, messages, or chatting. Sometimes it's something to try because she loved it, other times it's something to avoid. All that said, you have to be careful with certs because there are many people on here who are very active, but don't "kiss and tell" with certs and others may create fake profiles just to certify themselves. You can usually figure that out by contacting the certs.
Fort Washington MD			Username hidden (40 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Vetting is driveing one with the top down on a warm spring Day !!!!..Gezzzz
Houghton Lake MI			Username hidden (397 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Uhm...WE thought VETTING was what Mrs MC does...have crazy sex with an old vet. If any of you are interested in pursuing that interest, there are a LOT of VFW and American Legion Posts that have bars with inexpensive drinks... Ohhh I crack myself up sometimes.
Richmond VA			Username hidden (533 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	heehee carrie...if getting old means looking like you.....may I be an old bitch.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	lol! sorry to hear that tho... maybe there is a Vetter's Questionaire Form somewhere... lol, and then a travel size polygraph kit to see what they're lying about... lol... guess there's really no fool proof way know anything about anyone... i've spent so much time in the safe sex forum lately i almost dont want to swing anymore... lol
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That is okay, Lost. I am ignorant right along with you. I have never heard the term before. I guess that means I am getting old. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16530 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	see? I've been vetting my ass off since 2006 and didnt even know i was a vetter. Of course, apparently i was a sorry vetter, cause i chose some sorry ass vett-ees lol
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23661 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we should send Shelly the bills for having to get our keyboards professionally cleaned! LOL
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

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TOPIC: Vetting