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TOPIC: Tips for a male half Forward without being lewd
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| We have been out with a few other couples and we have found that most of the ladies want someone who can be forward with them, but talk about their bad experiences of how some guys are too aggressive. Anyone have good ideas to really jump into the forwardness without being too lewd or obnoxious? |
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Mr Sweet...
Why not learn how to just come out and ask if they are interested in playing and what are they seeking right from the beginning? It beats hours of wasted time... |
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My wife is always on my ass to be more aggressive,
---- I think you mean assertive. I don't think anyone likes aggressive ...when just meeting someone, I mean...lol Playing, ....many like aggressive then. ;) |
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I think you can (and should) remain the strong silent type that you really are ...yet appear approachable, friendly and/or interested... with simple things without changing who you are.
If you want to let a woman know you are interested in them, just add smiles and genuine friendliness. Now if you look mean or grouchy or snobby.... smile alot more! lol. |
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Lady & The Wolf, excellent comment.
As a bigger guy I also tend to be a more cautious and silent type in the beginning. Until you get a chance to talk and see if there is any interest, extra care is needed so you do not intimidate or appear overbearing. This is a great thread, lots of differing viewpoints. But all helpful. |
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That an offer? lol
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put your cock in her mouth. If she bites she doesnt like you.
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Taking notes like mad....lol.....I know it drives Lady nuts that I am the strong silent type. Always the gentleman and in control of myself. Too many years being the proverbial bull in a china shop perhaps? I tend to watch everything around me until I get comfortable and let my shields down....unless I am in San Antonio for some reason.......
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"If they find you attractive then being forward is seen as confidence.
If they find you unattractive then being forward is seen as being a creep. It's really the simple." ^^^^^ This pretty much sums it up. |
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Excellent advice Shells...and yes I took notes for later this summer.
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