The lifestyle and your relationship : Swingers Discussion 2070431021

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User Details are only visible to members.	My wife and I found each other outside of the LS. Neither of us was a card-carrying swinger up to that point in our lives, although an argument could be made with all the random sex we had before we hooked up we may as well have been playing in the minor leagues, but we were both curious as to how it could be. We honeymooned at Hedo (jump right into the deep end, eh!) and the rest is history. My question was based more on whether or not single people in the lifestyle seek out others like themselves or if it just happens to work itself into the relationship later. I read a lot of profiles that seem to imply the "choice" to do this rests with one or the other and it's not a mutual decision...ie, when a couple say's "we want to spice things up" does that really mean, "I'm tired of doing you and want to do someone else"? And thanks for the welcome to the Forum. I hope I can be a useful member. (See what I did there? ;) )
Long Beach CA			Username hidden (1608 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"... children won't be gone for at least another 8 years. " Better later than never! Love'em while you got'em!
Flat Rock NC			Username hidden (2790 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"I know I don't plan on being done in the next 6 years! :) " Good to know... ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I never properly answered the OP. We started here in our 15th year of marriage after having talked about it for several years. We started with an MFM from Craigslist and I will be forever grateful to the guy for being sane, sweet, patient and funny as heck. If he had been unpleasant it would have been a long time before I would have wanted to try again.
Cincinnati OH			Username hidden (3299 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm not in a relationship so if one starts, I'll have been here first. :-) I was 17 when I went to college and my parents had both turned 39 the summer before. They were just 37 when my brother started college. We always had the youngest parents and boy did our friends think my Mom was "hot!" On the other end of the spectrum, when my brother was 39 his kids were just 2 and 6. My mother frequently tells him she doesn't know how he does it. She was thrilled to have us both out of the house before she hit 40.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (4058 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Before we got married, we both knew that each of us had many prior lovers. The person that introduced us warned me that the future Mrs L was a "slut," and she was warned that I screwed around a lot. We both laugh about that to this day. From the start, we could be open with each other about our fantasies, we watched porn together, and we even both got turned on when we talked about seductions and sexual adventures from before we met. We got the idea to start swinging about 20 years ago when we watched a porn video series about real swingers that got us both really excited. We saw an ad for a swinging group that had regular house parties. We answered the ad and signed up not knowing what to expect. The party was at a Residence Inn... they had 3 suites, and about 30 couples. Things were a bit cliquey, and slow to get started. We flirted a bit with a couple, but we could tell that they weren't interested. A bit frustrated, my wife and I went to an open bedroom and just started playing with each other. It didn't take long before we were joined by another couple, and two really hot women. The best way to get my wife off is with oral, so I went down on her... when she came it energized the group and brought some people in the room to watch. The other couple was fucking on the other side of the bed, so I began screwing my wife with the other women touching and kissing her-- the sight of the women (we didn't even know their names) playing with my wife while I fucked her was so exciting that I didn't last long. I was not sure what to do about cumming... (I didn't want to make a mess) so I pulled out and came on the wall and the table by the side of the bed (now I feel bad for the maid that had to clean that up). Later in the evening we had a full swap with another couple and Mrs L fucked two other guys. When we got home, we both were still excited, so we fucked again. It was about 4:00 am when we finally got to sleep. I played in my golf league the next day, so I only got a few hours of sleep. I remember playing a good round of golf, maybe because I was so relaxed that I didn't care where the fuck my ball went. We had such a good time, we thought we would do it every weekend. But the host of the party, who we would have had a MFM with, began pursuing my wife... but he wanted her without me there (not cool!). We told him that we were not interested, but then he became a stalker. There was also an indiscreet message left at my office. So we decided that, while fun, swinging may not be worth the trouble. We got back into it a few years ago. We have found that SLS offers a better way to screen potential playmates. We don't swing often, but we have enjoyed several hot lifestyle encounters that add to the scintillating sex life that we have enjoyed for the last 22 years.
Gibsonia PA			Username hidden (6613 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lol...and I bet you guys will still be kicking up your heels as well!! ;)
Apollo PA			Username hidden (741 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ummm yeah by the time our youngest turns 18 I will be 55 and hubby will be 66..
Louisville KY			Username hidden (13975 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Aw, you're a sweetheart! Absolutely you will still be young enough to kick your heels up! I know I don't plan on being done in the next 6 years! :)
Apollo PA			Username hidden (741 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Absolutely a compliment. You two have to be the hottest parents on campus when you drop off your girls! We will be 48ish when we take our younger one off to college- still young enough to kick up our heels as I know you do!
Cincinnati OH			Username hidden (3299 post)

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