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Created by: toddnerstoledo	The original post for this thread was deleted.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Todd, I'm right there with you man. There is a terrible stigma that single guys are a affliction to the lifestyle. The biggest reason is guys that don't respect couples, aren't honest, and think it's just a meat market. Things that turn couples off are guys that are pushy, and don't respect the couples rules. I've been in Hawaii for a couple years now, and it's difficult here to meet people in the lifestyle. I have written to a few ads, and I get we're not looking for single males right now, or no answer at all. The suggestions that you are getting in this forum is right, just be yourself, be respectful and honest. Eventually you'll meet people and be invited to events. Patients is a virtue, and in this lifestyle it helps a lot.
Palm Beach Gardens FL			Username hidden (188 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	P.S. And this is only my humble opinion Todd, Keep the beard, clean shaven just isn't as good for you as the beard. The beard ROCKS. And I LOVE the grand canyon pic. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Tell ya what Todd, Single men that look like you aren't cursed around here! LOL Take a road trip. Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey Todd?? I went back into your profile...You took out the stuff about SCUBA diving and biking and stuff! Babe ya gotta have that stuff...in order to find like minded people, people have to know if you like the kind of things THEY do! I was actually frowning as I read it because I thin it was better before....I also don't think mentioning that you are divorced is necessarily a bad thing. It means that you know what its like to BE married. AND there are other people who have been divorced in the past too. Something in common, if you will.... PS...Dayum those pictures ROCK!
New Castle PA			Username hidden (171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey Todd, like everyone else, like the pics. THANK YOU THANK YOU for not showing us your penis! Wow, a single man who actually gets it! You are a very handsome man, and the pics are great and show your personality. The key Todd, is be yourself. Remember that we women are mature, intelligent people. Just because we are swingers does not minimize the fact that we are also professionals, wives, mothers, and women. Talk to us just like you would a woman you were interested in at the bar. Dont start off with stupid crap like "love the breasts, can see myself F********* them"....that will only get you blocked. As a past husband you understand that the men expect respect. Just because you aren't having physical sex with them they are sharing with you their greatest treasure, their life mate. So just be respectful. Jay loves it when the men actually talk to him like he is a guy, and not the one standing in the way between them and the inside of my panties. Talk about football, baseball, whatever you men talk about LOL...once you are friends with him (cause he knows the kinds of men I'm into) you are bound to be friends with me...and my friends are happy friends!! :0) So just be natural, and be yourself. If you like rock climbing tell me about it. Best of luck, sorry so long! Shelly
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	HI Todd! I must say THAT is a terrific picture! Caught my eye and HAD to go look at what you wrote so you are definitely doing something right. Don't mind our pics right now if you go look at ours, we are in the middle of swapping them out for different ones and that takes forever with narrowband...ok so you aren't the only one who goes offtopic! LOL OK suggestion number one on the profile....go look at the other single guys' profiles who are actively on the forum such as Triple Threats or Uriah's. These guys have it goin' on and pick up some pointers that way. Part two..I wouldn't get SO in depth about what you did with your friend and his wife..I do not want to hear the details! Other than that its a nice profile! Email couples and single women in the area who say they are looking for single guys and go from there.... PS! Posting here on the forum gives people a chance to see what kind of personality/intelligence you have and how you handle yourself....it could get you in doors otherwise closed to you. M(she)
New Castle PA			Username hidden (171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If I may reply. Todd, The single guys in my area, who are successful, participate in the groups. They make no pressure 'dates' with host couples. Coffee, dinner, things like that. It really helps to spend time getting to know those who host the parties ... doesn't matter if you play or not. Your hosting couples will know who in their group is looking for what. I wish you luck julie
Tyler TX			Username hidden (48 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Don't know about your area, but the lifestyle clubs that we belong to all allow both single males and single females to enter on select nights during the week. They also have monthly SLS-sponsored meet & greets open to all members whether solo or a couple. Hope this helps!
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