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Flirting??? NO....not me. ;)

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Folks will remember a sexy look or smile LOOOONG after they've forgotten what you've said! *

Not everyone is the same. You can have the best body language when it comes to flirting, but if there is nothing sexy, intelligent or wise leaving your mouth, I'll never remember you. I believe that good flirts are smart and very witty. If the only flirting that you're doing is making eyes at me, smiling and doing some sort of flirting with your body, there are many people out there, that will simply move on.

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Thank you Scandle...you guys seem like very nice folks as well!!

Starrynights22 (I'm a subtle flirt, and use my eyes, smile and body language to do most of my communicating)...that is the best kind of flirting. Folks will remember a sexy look or smile LOOOONG after they've forgotten what you've said!

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I love meeting people. The way I relax is to just chat. I enjoy putting people at ease. If hubby and I are interested, we smoothly guide the conversation to our new friends' past experiences and share some of our own (names never given, of course; this is just to see what interests them and let them know what gets us going). Although this wouldn't by definition be considered flirty banter, I can assure you everyone is quite happy ; ) Hmmm, perhaps "teasing" is a better description of what I enjoy doing.

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I don't think I could flirt to save my life..When meeting people it takes alot for me to actually warm up and speak. I am a sit back and watch and enjoy..

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I'm a flirt. But I don't JUST flirt. I can never flirt with people that I find unattractive. Whether in the forums, or face-to-face. I don't know how people flirt with just anyone regardless of attraction, it's just not in my make up. To me it gives off an impression of someone who's desperately in-discriminant.

Being friendly, smiling, joking, warm does not equate to flirting, to me at least.

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Confessions of a shameless flirt... I like to think that I flirt only with those who've piqued my interest, but banter and joke around (cut up?) with most others. Well, at least I hope that's the perception. I think that living too close to the base of the volcano slants my view on things and expands what I find funny most of the time.

To the OP, yes, what Nic said. Relax and have fun. Sorry, I'm devoid of original thought right now.

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There are many levels of flirting, just as there are many levels of attraction. I flirt in here with a lot of people and just enjoy the banter and then there are others who I will reach out to if I think we could have fun together. I suppose the same is true in a club setting, I am always smiling and (I hope) approachable but that doesn't mean I will play with anyone who takes notice. Once again, there are subtle clues like prolonged eye contact and light touches to the forearm.

Relax and have fun, no one has the perfect retort for every comment and we all think of the a better line after we walk away. Just remember it for the next time.

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twonluv69, thank you very much! You (your wife?) are quite lovely yourself. Too bad we live so far apart.

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I do feel, and I know not everyone agrees with me, that flirting should only occur with people you're truly interested in. Parties, the fora, etc. ---------------------------------- Kat - I tend to agree with this statement. Where it's difficult sometimes is knowing if the flirting is being received in a positive way.

I flirt where my interest lies and flirt back where there I feel there is some potential for friendship or possibly more.

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