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"You may keep me from ever being happy, but you're never gonna stop me from having fun." -- Ani DiFranco

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"Thank you for the plug Rdy."

Not how I roll.

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R123, are you just flirting with the idea of flirting in public? Or are you seriously talking about doing some serious talking?

I'm not in my fittest form right now, so your sharp wit may slay me, or drop me to my knees. Here: youtube.c om/watch?v=vVg7mtgEqGY

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Thank you for the plug Rdy. lol

Flirting in a public forum is just a matter of a clever turn of phrase...and timing. In person? Start simple. Remind each other to smile. Talk to each other and smile and laugh. Remind each other of something funny or sexy that happened to you and laugh out loud. People are naturally attracted to fun people. You don't have to walk up and introduce yourself if you are too shy, but be open to people approaching you. Be aware of who is watching you and make eye contact, if you like what you see, smile! Body language is just as important. Keep your head up and your body "open". Don't stand facing each other with heads down and arms crossed or at your side. Stand at slight open angle as if waiting for a friend to join the conversation. And SMILE!

Yes there is much, much more to it but trust me, at every club or party I attend, I find the easiest way to start a conversation is to be friendly and approachable. Try it!

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You sound like us lost_j1, we're not good @ breaking the ice but once it is broken we're good to go! Humility is more of our style, but unfortunately most folks mistake us being respectful for dis-interest!

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ugh. I admit, I suck. If I know you and I am comfortable with you, I am a good flirt. If I do not know you forget about it hahahahaha

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'Shameless flirting' may not fly with a lot of people. Humility will bring you a different set of encounters. Find your style.

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It's a combination of practice and natural talent.

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The two of us grew up very shy and although we have a good rapport with one another individually we are oblivious to people flirting with us. Unfortunately, for personal reasons (careers & family) we can no longer attend lifestyle events but would love to go some place where we can practice a little harmless flirting and maybe (a BIG maybe) folks will flirt with us as well. So I guess our question is this "how do we get better at flirting?"

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