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TOPIC: The Art of Flirting

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User Details are only visible to members.	I do feel, and I know not everyone agrees with me, that flirting should only occur with people you're truly interested in. Parties, the fora, etc. ---------------------------------- Kat - I tend to agree with this statement. Where it's difficult sometimes is knowing if the flirting is being received in a positive way. I flirt where my interest lies and flirt back where there I feel there is some potential for friendship or possibly more.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Fun subject! Great advice, too folks, but not surprised, lol. I'm a subtle flirt, and use my eyes, smile and body language to do most of my "communicating." I'm not shy, but I've never been good at saying flirty things. I find, though, that just paying rapt attention, good eye contact and discreet touches here and there can make any conversation flirtatious. I do feel, and I know not everyone agrees with me, that flirting should only occur with people you're truly interested in. Parties, the fora, etc. Kat
Morgantown PA			Username hidden (2965 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11420 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	takes one to know one ;)
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14172 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yes PG, yes you are. ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11420 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm a huge flirt. Both here in the forums and in everyday life.
Louisville KY			Username hidden (14172 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow NicAtNight, Rdy2play was right!! "You don't have to walk up and introduce yourself if you are too shy, but be open to people approaching you."...excellent advice! Flirting on-line is much easier as we can Google the perfect "turn-of-phrase" for the situation, but in person our wit just isn't that quick. Usually takes a few sips of "liquid courage" before the innuendos and entendres start to flow! :-) At our first few lifestyle events we could barely make eye contact as we thought "Oh Shit, we're staring!" until we realized you're SUPPOSED to stare at a lifestyle event! We're such nerds... But now, we always start out with a simple compliment (just to put people @ ease) and let the conversation flow from there. BTW, Scandle we're always happy to see other Tame/Moderate couples here... especially when they're as lovely as you! ;-)
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User Details are only visible to members.	I find I fail miserably at flirting with people here, on the forums. For the record, most of the people I've gotten to know here would be more than welcome to join me for some sexy fun, but coming across with that message gets lost somehow. Face-to-face I can be flirtatious if I remember Nic's basic rules - smile, look like you're interested in the other person, listen at least as much as you talk, use body language to indicate interest (first subtle, then build it up as things progress), etc. And above all, have fun - even if it's only with the partner you brought. You never know who is noticing you now and hoping/planning to meet you at a gathering in the future. The fact that you know how to enjoy yourself enhances your appeal.
Sheboygan Falls WI			Username hidden (7072 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"#FunIsAnAsshat" #Truth
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User Details are only visible to members.	#FunIsAnAsshat I still contend flirting can be learned by even the most shy people. If you see someone you are attracted to and can't work up the nerve to apporach them, move closer, get in their line of sight, smile, laugh, look like you are enjoying yourself and let them approach you. People are drawn to laughter and people who are having fun. If you blend into the scenery, no one may notice you. You do not have to be like a glad-handing politician but if your body language is receptive and approchable, you are half way there. As for what to say when you actually start chatting? Try to remember a couple of funny stories, maybe your first experience in the LS or even in dating. Nothing breaks the ice like self-depracting humor. Another easy opener is people watching. Point out another person in the room and ask the person you are talking to to tell you what they think their "story" is. And have one in mind when you ask so you can also give an answer and it can be something outrageous (CIA agent here to recruit a sexy spy) or simple (cheater looking for an easy lay). Smile, it ain't rocket science!
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