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newtothe,

We are so glad you are going to give the lifestyle a try.

Please may we give you a caution. Be careful about setting hard and fast rules like no sex on the first meeting. It took us a few years to learn that. Talk much more to each other about yourselves. Develop red light and green light phrases instead. The problem with hard and fast rules is that you find yourselves violating them, or at least wanting to, and then, at least at that moment, you and hubby are are not really together.

things like: Does he remind you of the fellow we met in Italy? (a place we liked very much) No but he does remind me of the fellow we met in China. (a place we did not like)........ Now I know my wife does not care for him

Give it a try

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It was fun, although I would've had more fun if I could've met you while I was there.

Syracuse NY
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Aw. Sorry Toptim. :)

Did you have a nice time in Hawaii??

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I offered to help you practice when I was on the islands....

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@MrSleepy - Sure thing! I need LOTS of practice. :)

Lahaina HI
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Thank you! I love sexy lingerie, & we've had a couple of pic parties.....sexy fun!

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Naughty, I love your pictures. Definitely classy; some of them have a little look of the burlesque.

The Wife

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Newtothescene, welcome to SLS! We're practically neighbors! I noticed on your profile that you're planning to attend a club that we go to often. Just for some reassurance, it's our favorite! Everyone is extremely friendly & inviting, but never pushy. You have a great outlook & are starting out slow, which is a good plan. Maybe we'll see you there! Beth

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Bridge,

We have agreed this is a life experience. Something to say, "yeah, we did that." We have already agreed that sex does not happen on a first meet even at this club event. That removes some pressure for that off the table and becomes more a enjoy a wild time and see how it feels time.

For me though, I didn't do the typical dating thing before marriage. Much of what we embark on now feels a lot like things I do not have a lot of experience with.

The Wife

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Hi Newtothescene,

Definitely check out the club. If you go in with an open mind and little to no expectations, I'll bet you'll both have a good time and maybe walk away with some new insights.

I started out as part of a couple, where both of us were newbies and think we both learned a lot simply from talking to people in our local clubs. We never had any expectations of playing with anyone. So, there wasn't that tension while we were chatting, or that disappointment because we didn't hook up with any couples or singles.

Have fun.

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