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TOPIC: Running into someone you know
Created by: MarriedwithDesires
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J (wifey) & myself were talking last night about our SLS searches & being on Tumblr. What would we do if we ran into someone we knew??? Would it be awkward? Would we be embarrassed? Then I said "hey, if we run into someone we know that just means their either already in the lifestyle or are curious about it just like we are... All the more reason to become.... Better Friends (wink wink). We live very close to a popular meeting location for a few of the parties posted on here but have not had the courage to stroll on it & say hello, just because its in our own backyard. Has anyone ever had this happen to them?

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My husbands baby sitter from when he was a child. The local pizza boy. The list goes on. All kinds of porno possibilities in our small town......

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Maui is a small island. It happens all the time!

Lahaina HI
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I have ran into a total of four co - workers, three no longer work there and they were easy to deal with we just laughed and everyone always says you are the last person I would have guessed. The fourth was a hard one for me for about 30 minutes because the day he became my boss was the first day he and his wife decide to hit a Swingers club. Sometimes when we talk shop we also talk about swinging.

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@JandJ2233

Too funny!!! That is great!!!

Marietta OH
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Met our son's ex-girlfriend's parents on sls. I went like this.. me...Want to grab a drink sometime? them...Since our kids dated, I guess that would be the next step

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I'm with s couple. Immediate family is out of the question.

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I think it will be exciting to actually meet someone we know in the life style as long as that someone isn't a close family member. Imagine the possibilities to actually talking freely with that person going forward. The relationship will be a lot closer even if sex isn't involved (i.e. lack of physical interest).

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I don't think I'd have a problem with it, unless it was a family member or a friend of my parent. Since I have a large family, it's not impossible.

ICK! I think I would just about die.

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Once met one of my daughter teacher from high school at a swinger club ,we both laugh and went on our way too bad she was in her class again im sure she would of gotten a A+ lol

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Actually, it has happened three times to us. First there was a mansion party with a couple hundred folks milling about, and I am engaged in a meaningless conversation with someone when my lovely wife tugs at my elbow and says, "Honey, there is someone here who wants to say hi." I turn around and it is the chief financial officer of the company that I direct, a beautiful blond woman I never would have expected to see there in a million years. She just giggled and said, "I kind of suspected you were in the lifestyle." We have never played (and it would be extremely unwise to do so given I am her supervisor), but we have had many closed-door discussions where I mentored her on some of her newbie questions.

And then there were two separate occasions where the missus was recognized on a lifestyle web site by two different former co-workers from a time before we got into the lifestyle. We have partied and flirted with them both at different events, but it seems a bit weird to both of us to get naked with someone we knew so well from a different, vanilla world. We might get over that reservation 'cause they are definitely hot. What is interesting is that the neither of the former co-workers knows anything about the other one, and they work in the same small office less than 50 feet apart. We admitted to them both separately that there is someone else in the lifestyle in their office, but they have never been able to figure out who the other one is.

For us, our initial nervousness about being outed was replaced by a "bond" of friendship that we are all part of the same thriving underground movement in a very religiously oppressive state. It feels good not to be alone.

Mr. Vinum

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