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There may be things I overlook, if I am attracted to the person. I don't consider that relaxing my requirements though. The things I will overlook are usually just guidelines and not requirements. My requirements I will never relax on, which is why we don't play very much.
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Seduction wonderful post! Why would I want to relax my requirements and take something less than I want? I am here to fullfill MY desires right? Lol.
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I am very picky, by far pickier than hubby, but he's quite picky himself. There are requirements that we'd be ok with overlooking (age as an example). And then there are areas that we simply will not, they're just a turn off, ex: clear lack of cerebral power, hygiene, certain behaviors etc...
I'm a huge advocate of not rushing, holding out until you find what turns you on so much that you simply have to have that person. For us at least, this is about fantasy fulfillment, an add-on to an already hot sex life. So why relax our requirements? |
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newto, good to have you here.
I think you are just very open minded. And you might be a challenge to those without so much on the ball. Just be yourself. If you think they aren't up to speed, they probably think you are too "out there". Rejections are often both ways. You are more likely to remain on friendly terms if you don't try to force anything. Good luck, and count your blessings. |
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I prefer a woman petite up to 5' 5" with brown hair to the shoulders or longer and medium B or C breasts, but can forget most of my preferences if she has a nice smile, great laugh and pleasant personality. I've dated women in my single days that were 5' and 6' with no problem My spouse is not a model as far as looks and has real short hair, but is very beautiful to me and sexy, a great body, seeing her in the throws of passion is incredible, even after 27 years together. Standards I won't relax is if the person is sarcastic in a nasty way, I don't like mean people.
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When I was a couple, I was most certainly the most picky and still am and no I dont relax my requirements, If I want to relax my requirements its easier to go to a vanilla bar pick up a single male.
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5'10"+ CHECK!
I'm IN!! Enjoy your vaca LL ;^D |
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Not sure about requirements: in a check box sense where someone must meet each of them. But we both have preferences; K also prefers men 5' 10" + because she is tall herself. We try not to focus on looking for particular traits, but for sexual attraction. HWP is not a requirement, but we haven't found anyone not HWP that we found the sexual attraction we want. Perhaps its just semantics, but I'd like to think we are going in with an open mind looking for people that we share an attraction. Making a check list with a lot of specificity seems like it would limit your possibilities for fun.
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