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TOPIC: Relaxing your requirements

Created by: WannaTry808 Original Starting post for this thread:
Another newbie question.....this one about "pickiness". I know we all have our personal (or couple) set of "requirements" for potential play partners. For example: HWP only, must be shaved, etc. Two of mine (silly as they sound) is that I prefer men to be 5'10"+ and have no facial hair. As luck would have it, we recently met up with a nice couple and the guy was quite a bit shorter and has a flavor-saver type goatee. I'm able to look past the height and facial hair-thing because he's fits almost every other "requirement" I have. (No, we haven't played with them yet.) Question... Does everyone do a little mental give-n-take when meeting other people? Or are most people on here super-stringent on their "requirements"? **BONUS QUESTION - If you are a couple, who is the "pickier" one? The Mr or the Mrs?? (I thought it would be me, but it turns out that hubby is the pickier one.)

Created by: WannaTry808
Original Starting post for this thread:

Another *newbie* question.....this one about "pickiness".

I know we all have our personal (or couple) set of "requirements" for potential play partners.  For example:  HWP only, must be shaved, etc.  

Two of mine (silly as they sound) is that I prefer men to be 5'10"+ and have no facial hair.  As luck would have it, we recently met up with a nice couple and the guy was quite a bit shorter and has a flavor-saver type goatee.  I'm able to look past the height and facial hair-thing because he's fits almost every other "requirement" I have.  (No, we haven't played with them yet.)

Question... Does everyone do a little mental give-n-take when meeting other people?  Or are most people on here super-stringent on their "requirements"? 

**BONUS QUESTION -  If you are a couple, who is the "pickier" one?  The Mr or the Mrs??  (I thought it would be me, but it turns out that hubby is the pickier one.)

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User Details are only visible to members.	Abita Springs, LA, you know I (female half of this couple), actually live near Jackson, MS (details in profile info)-- if you are in area, send us an email.
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2751 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Trust us on this one, it's a whole lot easier said than done. :-) But still hopeful that it'll happen this year.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (919 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Put less water in your plans so it firms up faster.
Denham Springs LA			Username hidden (62 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@LWC -- hell you guys already got the stamp of approval, just no travel plans that have gelled yet:(
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2751 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Smart is the best part of our asses, Nic.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Email to sb311 or Uriah, or I will send appropriate numbers your direction:)
Memphis TN			Username hidden (2751 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	* tell him why yes, you have a very good rye bread.** LOL, do you think that he'd know what rye bread is? I actually wrote back and said, "Sorry pal, I waxed it, but my mustache is to die for, unfortunately my calendar is full"
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User Details are only visible to members.	SB - LMAO Bayou, the feeling is mutual :-* Why can't the good ones live closer? Aargh.
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User Details are only visible to members.	SB, where do I submit the required application?
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User Details are only visible to members.	tell him why yes, you have a very good rye bread.
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