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We are exclusively sameroomers. We've never had an issue of timing being awkward. All of our playmates have had bi-sexual wives/girlfriends, and as it has been said previously, this makes puppy-piling much easier.

Functionally, when one of the guys finishes off first, he usually hits the head, gets a drink, etc., while the lady hops onto the other couple. The finisher sometimes comes back, watches, gets a second wind, and jumps in again. Sometimes the difference in finishing times isn't all that different... especially with p. When she sees someone else hit climax, she's pretty much through the roof.

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Sweet, good point, I wasn't thinking about the group thin that makes it more easy.

And John, I know my comfort level, lol. It's none, lol. I'm not into it at all and my wife is even more against it than me. I am mainly just curious, because to us it seems so akward. Almost like how a vanilla would question a swinger.

I imagine it is harder for me to see the answers as well because things like watching don't appeal to me so I wouldn't have thought to just sit back and watch and wouldn't want to be watched like I'm a tv show, lol.

I imagine it is the same for those who are strictly same room, wondering how us "separates" do it.

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I don't think you will get a cut and dry answer here, I think it would be more important to talk it over with your spouse, tell him/her what may turn you on to get you there faster or if you prefer they remain quiet or leave the room.

every couple is different, some like different things, We have been with couples that like us to watch, others like us to direct the action, and some even want us to join to help them along.

You will have to experiment to find your comfort zone.

Me personally, I like watching Mrs John getting pleased and will join in if she looks at me a certain way during.

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So you want to know what us sameroomers "new term I love it" do when one or two of us are done, or it the other guy doesn't no what he's doing. I can only speak for us. We like to play same room same bed,floor,couch, same ceiling fan, ect Everyone playing together, It might 3 on 1,2 on 2,Just one big pile of fun. So no one is ever really done, Now on those occasions when one or more wants a break, We watch "nothing better than live porn" go get something to drink or whatever.If the guys are needing a rest and the girls don't, they play and the guys watch. For us it's so much more than just having sex it's "play"

As far as the other guy not know what he is doing, My wife is a top, so if the other guy doesn't know what he's doing, she'll either teach him or do him.


 
 
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I think you guys missed what i was asking. I was asking about same room. We DO use sort of a checkin time for separate. If you are right next to each other it's pretty obvious if someone is done. and If I was still going, I really don't wanna listen to small talk going on next to us, lol.

Maybe thats why I am dead set on separate room, but I just wanted to see what you same roomers do.

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what she said..


 
 
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Sometimes we crack jokes trying to break their concentration, lol!

Hmmmm this is good to know.

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we only play same room, and even same bed if possible. that's because we enjoy interacting with each other while we are playing with others. so when one couple finishes, it's a very natural thing to just continue to enjoy the other partner while they finish.

this may not be so easy since your lady is straight. k is about 90% straight and 10% bi curious, and even then, it is very difficult for her to find a female she will play with. that being said, if your lady is getting mauled by the other female, (it happens) she may never be comfortable with the same bed situation or same room either.

the ladies know whether or not there is an attraction. if not, it's straight play only. as long as everyone is on the same page, there's no problem. if you're lady is uncomfortable with controlling her situation with an aggressive female, either you will have to do so, or risk losing the night. we usually manage to get all this straight with another couple long before we ever get to play time.

opinions. works for us.

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Why not lie there and have pillow talk? Play around. Laugh. Maybe even go for another round? Why base it on "when the man finishes?" and instead set a "If you don't hear from us in 30..." or whatever rule.

Just some thoughts.

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We are not into same room at all. Tried it, not for us. But I am curious about a couple things in case it were ever to arrise.

Being in separate rooms, we don't finish at the same time. So in a same room situation, what do you do if one guy finishes early? Or one guy knows what he is doing and the other doesn't?

I think if the girl got up to join her man and the other mans wife, that it would be a very awkward situation and very rude to the other male. In different rooms, it's not so obvious. I'll admit, with the couple we have been seeing lately, I am usually the one to finish sooner. It's not that I'm not lasting enough, just that my wife and the other male are shy so it takes them longer to get going, wheere as we just get into it with passion. I also know a lot more tricks and am able to bring his wife to orgasm very quick. We just stay in and talk or grab a smoke until they are finished. In the same room, this seems like it could be very akward. Is it often that one guy nuts quick and is just left there to sit out? So anyways, i just wanted to hear some feedback.

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