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See....that is what I am talking about. It seems so easy for someone to get pissy about something. Even someone who goes in completely fine, may get upset if all of a sudden their wife is making noises they have never heard before.

My wife is cool enough to fake it or if a "problem" arrises (or doesn't) to handle the situation lightly so it doesn't become as big of a deal, but as I have already seen, many aren't. I am the same. I'm happy with whatever little fun I have and if it isn't perfect, so what. I'm not going to call someone out or get up and leave them. I could count all the times I have had "perfect" sex on one hand.

Even though some people find themselves in a bad place sometimes, I really don't want to be the one putting them there. This is why my wife and I both agree, that when you are in the same room, we feel like we have to hold back so everyone is on a more even level. In separate room, there is no holding back.

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those are the kind of losers we avoid like the plague.

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my partners hubby got mad because his wife was enjoying herself to much..

I would say you need to choose better playmates.


 
 
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We always do seperate rooms, we have done same, wife doesn't like that. last time we played in same room, my partners hubby got mad because his wife was enjoying herself to much.. he was so involed with watching that he and my wife really didnt do anything. guess it created some resentments and i was told that it wouldn't happen again

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We definitely only play in the same room, same bed. Timing though has never been an issue. In fact I usually finish before my wife and I take my time and give my partner a nice back massage and enjoy watching my wife with her partner. It is all about relaxing and seeing this for what it is, just easy going sensuality. Do not worry about what others are doing, just be sensitive to your partner and everything will turn out fine.

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Flirt don't worry about it, you guys play the way you most enjoy that's what it's all about, if you not having fun it's not worth the effort. We also miss out on playing with couples because of the way we like to play.


 
 
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Hmm....ya I just don't think it would work for us. I'm not really into MFM. She doesn't like being watched. If she was with a guy and the guys wife joined it, it would ruin it for her. If I joined in, she wouldn't be AS pissed, but even back when we had threesomes with girls, she didn't care what I did with the other girl, but really didn't want me messing with her.

To be honest, we probably could do same room, but there really is no point for us. It's not a turn on and if there is no bi/group play, then not much point. I don't mind HEARING stuff, so sometimes we play with doors open, which I do like, or sometimes if I get up to take a leak, I will sneak over and listen at the other door cause it's kind of hot.

I just have noticed that there is SO many more same room couples than separate. And when we ask people if they are same or separate room, they get really defensive. Almost like we are frickin crazy or something. I wish we could do the same room thing because we miss out on a lot of sexy couples that we have everything in common with BUT that, but I guess it's just not for us...

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I'm not bi. This was initially a problem for me. I felt like my partner and I needed to keep pace with J and his partner- I even wondered if we should switch positions when they did! As you might guess, this was not enjoyable for me.

Over time, I have gotten much better at enjoying the sights and sounds of J and his partner while remaining fuzzy on the particulars of where they might be in the process. If one set of folks finishes first (that will never be me- I am so flippin' slow) then the others rest/tease/join in where appropriate. We are fairly conversational during play and it never feels awkward. Personally, I like those moments when both men are focused on me and I know J doesn't turn down those moments when both ladies are giving him their attention.

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Is there any couples without bi females that could comment? I'd really like to see what they have to say.

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When she sees someone else hit climax, she's pretty much through the roof.

So true orgasms seem to be contagious.


 
 
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