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TOPIC: Please Help
Created by: luv_to_play_2010
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My husband and I are new to the lifestyle. Last year I got to play with another man and my husband still has not got to play. The problem is he wants me to find him someone. I have asked all my friends and tried all kinds of websites and no luck. He is shy and don’t want to try clubs. So my question is, where do I need to look to find him someone? It seems no one wants to take on newbie’s.
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Even though you stated he is shy and does not want to try a club, they really are one of the better chances you would have.

They really are fun and easy going places.

Middletown DE
 
 
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Try adding some content and personality to your profile. Get out to some events and clubs, it might be out of his comfort zone, but that might be a good thing. Use the Hot Date, especially if traveling. Good luck and cheers.

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Hi Luv,

You guys seem very sweet...welcome to the forums : ) Rdy is right, stick with like-minded groups. I would encourage you to fill out your profile a lot more -- look at other profiles for ideas. From your post, I take it that you played with a single male, and now he is ready to play with a single female? Single females are very difficult to come by (supply and demand). Would you consider meeting with another couple? Also, if hubby is shy, why not start out at a club where the two of you can have your own fun and be watched while watching others...kind of give him a taste of the LS while staying within his own boundaries. Then try meeting with a couple. You can go as fast or as slow as you like.

Best wishes, Kat

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My husband and I are new to the lifestyle. Last year I got to play with another man and my husband still has not got to play. The problem is he wants me to find him someone. I have asked all my friends and tried all kinds of websites and no luck. He is shy and don’t want to try clubs. So my question is, where do I need to look to find him someone? It seems no one wants to take on newbie’s.

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TOPIC: Please Help