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TOPIC: Playing with only her
Created by: Hh4u
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We are a couple new to all of this. We have had a few encounters with a bi female and were full swap. We have talked about and agree that we don't want to play with couples and single guys. I fear that this limits us to the evasive unicorns.

Our question is it uncommon for the female half of a couple to play alone? Also we are interested in partys but that seems to have very few single females who attend. I would hate for us to attend only to feel uncomfortable and out of place.

Any advice is appreciated

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The "lady" was not drunk nor was she drug induced. She had several men follow her into a room. My husband was NOT one of them.

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No you aren't. Just have a good time and enjoy being there. The rest will fall into place if it is to be.

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Thanks for the advice.. I think were going to try a party and see how it goes. Maybe there will be some single ladies. Were not obligated to have sex with anyone!

Lebanon NH
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I would have assumed that alcohol or some other substance was involved. The one we witnessed was apparently a combination of things.

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"You see a lady buck naked yelling ok guys I am open , then she fucks whatever walked into the room behind her, yeah I am thinking she aint too picky" "

We've seen it once. She was pretty drunk, and most guys didn't want anywhere near her.

We have a good friend of ours who WANTED to do that, but she lost her nerve.....

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I recall a somewhat similar situation at a house party. A complete turnoff. We left by 9:00 if that tells you much.

Pulaski TN
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"If I saw that, we'd be out of there pronto. I can't imagine what manner of disease might be floating through the air. "

Right!? *shudders*

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It sounds so bold, but I almost think it would be refreshing for someone to walk up and ask "what are you into?" That way they aren't wasting their time or ours. With that said I realize that approach will not work with some- especially newbies. I'd definitely award points for originality. As for being pissed if they don't speak right up, it goes both ways. Did you ask in a timely manner? It might help, especially if they're newer or maybe just new to the group.

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"The same goes for swinging. You see a lady buck naked yelling ok guys I am open , then she fucks whatever walked into the room behind her, yeah I am thinking she aint too picky"

In the 5 years we have been a part of this lifestyle we have never seen what you described here. Not saying it didn't happen but I question how common this is. I think the majority of sexually active people (in or not in this lifestyle) look for what attracts them. Whatever that may be.

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do you think many couples would agree to that proposition?

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