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TOPIC: Pic sharing-chatting vs meeting in person
Created by: camzwife
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Have you ever felt a connection and strong desire for someone to play with based on chatting and pics, only to have met them and that attraction and desire was lost or not as prevelant?

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Thanks for the reply, I do see a SF in your area but she isn't bi. Maybe we will run into you at Eros sometime.

;^D

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Maybe one of these days Nick but hell, we can't even find the time to meet up with the single ladies that want to play with the Mrs.

Painesville OH
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Yes.

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Well, aside from the occasional "outdated pics" business (frustrating, non?), it all comes down to personal chemistry, which I (male half here) think is only evident when you meet in person. Since there are four people involved, it's a bit more problematic than just two people "connecting". We keep expectations low on purpose, and have an open mind about that first meeting. We usually prefer meeting the other couple at a meet and greet; that way, if the chemistry isn't there after some conversation, no evening wasted. However, we've encountered a few couples who prefer to meet one-on-one, usually for privacy reasons. That's fine too, if both Mrs. and I feel a solid attraction. We pretty much "play it by ear".

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hmmm guess I should stop bitching about having to wait 2 years for 6 hours distance then...

Louisville KY
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PG is correct, I live only an hour away from this hot couple but have yet to meet them.

*sigh

Youngstown OH
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I'm thinking he means meeting bandp ;)

I like to chat a bit first.

Louisville KY
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Yes sadly, I have found that to be true bandp. Still hoping...

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Youngstown OH
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Who hasn't met a couple that they didn't hit it off with, nothing wrong with that, we can't like everyone. Sometimes it's just a pleasant evening chatting, nothing more. And as others have mentioned, vanilla time takes up a big chunk of our free time, sometimes it's simply impossible to get free to meet new potential playmates.

Painesville OH
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Thanks, Outdoors.

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TOPIC: Pic sharing-chatting vs meeting in person