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Created by: Rdy2play123 Original Starting post for this thread:
A SM (yes, the dreaded SM) contacts us, with a very polite, relatively long email explaining his interest. He and I email and then IM back and forth a bit and last week i go out to meet him. We get along, he's a great kisser, and respectful of the boundaries we've set for the meet, as he wants to ensure playtime with us soon. Next day i open a couple of galleries for him for one week only. We do this with both SMs and couples so that if things go south, we dont have to always remember to close pics. If things go well and they close, they usually ask for access again anyway. Lol. So, we set up a date at a hotel, for which he has offered to pay. Once we confirm the babysitter, we are good to go. The afternoon of the date, about 2 hours prior, he calls to cancel. Kid issues. No problem- been there done that. As he doesn't want to lose his $, we rearrange to meet four days later, same arrangements, so the hotel transfers his reservation. Again, the morning of the date he cancels on us for a second time. Kid issues. No problem--its dec 23rd and we get it. And so we say to him via email and text. You know, family first. He sends a long email about how his ex and the kids always fuck up his schedule, woe is me, and how he really wanted to fuck me, etc., etc. Oh brother not looking good but just wait.... Later in the afternoon, about 10 min after I get on sls for the first time that day, I get a nasty text about how we closed galleries to him. CLEARLY, playing is more important to us than whether a man takes care of his family or not, blah, blah blah, what a jerk he was to have wasted his money on us, blah, blah,blah. I go to email him to explain our gallery access policy and guess what, we are blocked! All of his emails disappear and can't find him on the site. I call, he hangs up! Finally I can leave a message to explain and he texts back--"DO NOT CALL AGAIN." I text back: "Silly man.". Lol. We are done with him now. Later that night, lo and behold, an email on sls! He has unblocked us. Now we block! Yay. Really done now. Nooooo..... MANY texts from him later, back and forth between apologizing and ranting, he finally realizes he is blocked. last text: "a couple of fucking losers have blocked me, but at least I got a blow job last week when we met." which of course is untrue and he is trying to cause distress to A. Then he names another couple on sls by their screen name, who we happen to know, and say we are in the same league as them. What a moron. This is why I KEEP him oN the phone directory, so that I can ignore when he calls again. Red flags (each was not enough on it's own, but we should've paid attention to the way they built up): -Talked about wanting exclusivity before he and I even met -Very full of himself, not confident, but boldly cocky -whining and talking smack about his kids and ex -interesting timing of first cancellation then second Oh well,Live and learn.

Created by: Rdy2play123
Original Starting post for this thread:

A SM (yes, the dreaded SM) contacts us, with a very polite, relatively long email explaining his interest.  He and I email and then IM back and forth a bit and  last week  i go out to meet him.  We get along, he's a great kisser, and respectful of the boundaries we've set for the meet, as he wants to ensure playtime with us soon.  

Next day i open a couple of galleries for him for one week only.  We do this with both SMs and couples so that if things go south, we dont have to always remember to close pics.  If things go well and they close, they usually ask for access again anyway.  Lol.

So, we set up a date at a hotel, for which he has offered to pay. Once we confirm the babysitter, we are good to go. The afternoon of the date, about 2 hours prior, he calls to cancel.  Kid issues. No problem- been there done that.  As he doesn't want to lose his $, we rearrange to meet four days later, same arrangements, so the hotel transfers his reservation.  Again, the morning of the date he cancels on us for a second time.  Kid issues.  No problem--its dec 23rd and we get it.  And so we say to him via email and text.  You know, family first.  He sends a long email about how his ex and the kids always fuck up his schedule, woe is me, and how he really wanted to fuck me, etc., etc.  Oh brother not looking good but just wait.... 

Later in the afternoon, about 10 min after I get on sls for the first time that day,  I get a nasty text about how we closed galleries to him. CLEARLY, playing is more important to us than whether a man takes care of his family or not, blah, blah blah, what a jerk he was to have wasted his money on us, blah, blah,blah.  I go to email him to explain our gallery access policy and guess what, we are blocked!   All of his emails disappear and can't find him on the site.  I call, he hangs up!  Finally I can leave a message to explain and he texts back--"DO NOT CALL AGAIN."   I text back:  "Silly man.". Lol.   We are done with him now.

Later that night, lo and behold, an email on sls!  He has unblocked us.  Now we block!  Yay. Really done now.  Nooooo..... MANY texts from him later, back and forth between apologizing and ranting, he finally realizes he is blocked.  last text:  "a couple of fucking losers have blocked me, but at least I got a blow job last week when we met." which of course is untrue and he is trying to cause distress to A.  Then he names another couple on sls by their screen name, who we happen to know, and say we are in the same league as them.  What a moron.

This is why I KEEP him oN the phone directory, so that I can ignore when he calls again.

Red flags (each was not enough on it's own, but we should've paid attention to the way they built up):
-Talked about wanting exclusivity before he and I even met
-Very full of himself, not confident, but boldly cocky
-whining and talking smack about his kids and ex
-interesting timing of first cancellation then second

Oh well,Live and learn.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Perhaps this should be in BotD in the Open Forums: He keeps coming back!!! It's time to get Wayne AND my very first ever SM playmate involved who is the chief of police of a well respected local community. He's already told me that he will fix this fucker if need be. You see! swinging CAN be a very positive experience! lol
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User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry to hear that, Rdy!
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User Details are only visible to members.	OMG! he's baaaaccckkk! Was just contacted by this same asshole in the OP now from a different profile ( a couples profile now). He has changed his given name as well. First line of his email: "Guess who's got a girlfriend now?" EWWWWW! I though HS was over! BLOCK!
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User Details are only visible to members.	What you had there....was a failure to communicate. LOL Seems like things were taken the wrong way, or out of context.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Total Babe, it is my LEAGUE you are out of, lol. check your mail, gorgeous.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Inlove, I know I am outside of your age range, but you are within mine...
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User Details are only visible to members.	That sounds great, Babe. I know I would get the better of that deal. BTW, Nic, nice to see you back on the forums and your point is well taken. That is good advice for us all, and not just in the context of SLS dating.
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User Details are only visible to members.	ROTFLMFAO!!! Lol, Inlove, that was a great one! OK, how about we just face each other and check the fit of frontal parts?
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User Details are only visible to members.	haha, was going to say, "I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours" but then I thought we would look pretty silly (and might hurt our backs) trying to show each other his/her asshole.
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