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We try to post a few male pics but most of the ones we take just come out looking cheesy AND most of the male pics we've seen on other profiles look goofy too, so it seems hard to pose a man and look good LOL. Part of the problem stems from the difference in what men and women like to look at. Most men would like a pic of a women spread wide open showing everything intimately and up close..women on the other hand don't want crotch shots, they want something sexy but tastful. Also too there are lots of "examples" (playboy, hustler, etc,etc) of sexy poses for a woman that will attract a man but not alot to show men how to pose.

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We never really thought about it much until we saw this discussion thread; I'm not sure why. It might just be because he's the one taking the pictures, generally. We've got pictures of both of us in our private pics, including face pics of both of us, but we only open those up if we're ready to meet someone (my job requires serious discretion, especially in our little city). Now that we've read through the thread, though, it makes sense to at least put a body shot of him, in addition to the ones of me, on the public pics. (Sigh--he's gone out on the road for work....have to wait 'til he gets to come home again....)

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We haven't quite figured out how to take pictures of the Mr. without them looking cheesy. G-rated pics are easy, but men pimping in front of a camera just looks silly to me.

Denham Springs LA
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We ALWAYS ask to see face pics of both the man and woman of a couple before we agree to meet. We not only want to know if there is enough attraction to have potential, but also we want to be able to recognize the couple at a restaurant without having to ask everybody in the place to get naked so we can compare their "stuff" with those crotch shots!

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It's a pet peeve of mine, too, but whatcha gonna do? If the profile looks good we go ahead and ask for pictures of the male.

I don't care if men are MORE aroused by pictures. Women are at least somewhat aroused by pictures, and we are talking about someone we might meet for sex. How would I know if I was interested in the guy with NO pictures to look at? I'm not necessarily looking for photos to turn me on, just some idea of what the guy looks like.

You have to see SOMETHING of the guy, esp. more than his weiner standing at attention.

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BnK, if you're ever down this way let us know. I'd be glad to do an erotic photo shoot of the two of you and even give you the memory card afterward. No obligations on your part, either. It's fun to do and we always have a good time when P is "up" for letting me do a photo shoot.

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There are various people on this site. Some are looking for committed relationships with another couple, or female. Some are looking for sport sex. If you are a female looking for sport sex, a cock shot may be all you want to see. If you are a couple looking for another couple and you are a bi female in the relationship, both members of the couple are going to be interested in the female. My point is this: more people are interested in seeing the female because fewer people are looking for just a man. Not all, but the majority.... Plus, women are into more than just the looks...... men are more apt to be visually aroused (that came from the psychology book). I agree that more profiles need male pics. I think that the males are really selling themselves short (no pun intended) when they just put a cock shot up. Most women I have met in this lifestyle agree with me...... there is a lot to be discovered under clothing. Putting it all out there sometimes spoils the fun of finding out! We only post one photo of the two of us together.... with clothing. If you want to see what is under there, you will have to get our attention with your quick wit and social prowess........

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We skip couple profiles that don't have a male pic. we play as a couple, and my wife is straight. If she cannot see a pic, we move on.

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think that most of the times the males are the ones taking the pictures.In some of the cases we have found when no pictures of the male and we have met them, he has been way more dom and controling or directiing what he wants to see done.Which means he is also the one controling whatever, whoever, whenever

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Interesting question. My thoughts are that few really want to see a cock shot. Maybe I'm wrong, but thats the impression I get. I've got a lot of cock shots but don't display them because I don't think anyone is interested.

If there were more comments from the ladies about it, then maybe there would be more included. We have many of our pics in private, and a few are cock shots. Be happy to share them if anyone is interested. Some aren't bad, if I do say so myself. *chuckle*

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