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I'd say there is just as much drama now, if not more, than in high school.

Don't worry about the people who don't invite you to parties. Throw your own.

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Ha-Ha! Just like High School! Only difference is we all have jobs now! lol

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"So silly! I guess swinging is an awful lot like high school, huh? Too bad. We stupidly thought swinging was for adults. "

No offense Wanna but you might want to ask your yourself if it is more childish to worry, wonder or be insulted why you weren't invited or to simply not Be invited.

Swinging for adults and it works both ways.

I agree there are dozens of reasons you may or may not be invited to a party. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.

I am sorry if your feelings were hurt though.

Mrs Sav

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I wouldn't take it too personally. There could be several legitimate reasons for not inviting you. Bottom line is that they obviously felt that you were not a good fit for the rest of the group at the party. Maybe they're into bi fems, 420, or whatever. Remain cordial and if it really bugs you, just ask them why you weren't invited.

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We live in a very small place and the pool of active swinging couples is even smaller.

We just found out last night that a couple we have known for almost the entire time we have been swinging have been having hotel/house parties...and we have never been invited to a single one.

No, we have never played with this other couple, but have seen and spoken to them at 2 M&G's they have thrown. We've always been friendly to each other, so to hear about all these parties was like...wow.

So silly! I guess swinging is an awful lot like high school, huh? Too bad. We stupidly thought swinging was for adults.

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