Oral or Intercourse Which is more intimate: Swingers Discussion 44701

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Oral or Intercourse Which is more intimate: Swingers Discussion 44701

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TOPIC: Oral or Intercourse - Which is more intimate

Created by: irishlassnlad Original Starting post for this thread:
Personally, I consider oral sex to be more intimate than intercourse because you have the opportunity to give more direct attention to your partner's erogenous zones. What do you think and why?

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User Details are only visible to members.	I feel that kissing is very very intimate. Coming second to gazing into the other person's eyes. Oooo that look, it gives me such an intense feeling. I do believe that intercourse is much more intimate than oral though. You are in total personal contact with the other person, body to body. Then to put the kissing and gazing into each other's eyes, there's no beating it. Man...I'm getting excited just thinking about it. Anyone in the Pennsylvania area want to stop by??? lol
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have to agree that kissing is the most intimate thing you can do. I guess it's the romantic in me talking. Oral sex is more erotic for me (when I perform it upon a woman), but not necessarily more intimate. Intercourse can be intimate mostly because I like to kiss and watch the way the woman I'm having sex with react to what I do to her.
Jonesboro AR			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oral anything...kissing/oral sex is much more intimate than placing dick in the slot. That's why I move so slowly with women. I will tease them for hours..but not complete the act. Oral w/women indicates commitment to me. Oral with men is a power move. Go figure.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am intimate with my wife and she with me.Intimate to us would be defined in the person I am comitted to, want to spend the rest of my life with ,tell all my secrets to,my best friend.The one who has unconditional love for me and I for her. I have sex with others.Yes we kiss,oral and have intercourse, this to us is different, daring ,creative.We also can maintain a friendship if it developes out of swinging we also maintain many friendships that have nothing to do with swinging.We also do get to know quite a bit about the others we have been with and hang out with. I guess its all in each ones terminology of what you wish to call intimate. If having sex with others is what you call intimate no matter how great or meaningless it is.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2070 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I guess I am in the minority here when it comes to interpreting what intimacy is. For me, the most intimate action is face to face, primarily kissing (but not limited to kissing). So I actually understand when some couples have a no-kissing rule because they find that kissing is too intimate. Our difference with such couples is that we are not afraid of being intimate with others. In fact, intimacy is what we are mostly interested in. It's the main reason we swing. Intercourse and oral would then be second and third (respectively) in the intimacy scale. Intercourse actually can be extremely intimate if you are kissing and having other forms of facial contact while fucking. I guess it can be as intimate as kissing, but generally it isn't because you are somewhat less concentrated in the other person's face due to the action taking place down there. Oral, as wonderful as it is, would be the least intimate. It's great sexual play though. Because we like sex for its intimacy potential, I have had long sessions of sex (say over an hour) with oral sex playing little or no part. But it plays an important role after the initial session is over and one is trying to have some fun during the recharge period. It also shortens the length of the recharge period, lol... Mr. Content
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Personally, I consider oral sex to be more intimate than intercourse because you have the opportunity to give more direct attention to your partner's erogenous zones. What do you think and why?
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