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TOPIC: Newbies need help with terms situations
Created by: Phideaux
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What is a social? Is it the same as a house party? We have been "hosted" in another home & have hosted as well. New subject. What happens at a club? Really, We have never been nor do we know anyone that has. Is it a place to network with other swingers? What {can} take place. How far do people go. Is it safe? Help us please. Thanks.

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LOL, Phideaux we recently asked the same question and are glad to help you with this. It means that "herb" or marijuana use is AOK !

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One more term I am not clear on. What is 420 friendly?

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Thanks so much for all of the helpful info. As much as I would like to go to a club, she doesnt feel that she would be comfortable with it. Wish us luck on getting invited to a house party.

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Some great descriptions of clubs have been offered. Just to add a bit more... We have enjoyed On-Premises clubs a lot - and use it as our primary resource for getting together with other couples. It's better for us than searching and communicating on a site like this because you get to see what people look and act like much better than pictures (pictures can be unrealistically flattering or unflattering) and email. You don't have to play at a club if you don't feel like it or don't click with anyone. We love dancing and can be happy if that's all we end up doing - and the dancing is much more sexually charged there than at normal clubs. We've heard that clubs can be cliquey, but we've never found that to be the case. We don't have high expectations on how others receive us - we never feel like we're owed anything.

We've been to clubs a couple of nights when the single guys were hovering a bit - but they've always responded appropriately when we tell them we don't play with single guys. Wish I could say that about normal clubs.

We love the hot-tubs (great place to "prep" for playing), the pool tables, the convenience of rooms that are kept clean with fresh sheets and lockable doors (only a few have observation windows - and you can block them).

The only thing I think we wish the clubs in our area had were larger beds - we like to stay all together and sometimes the beds get a bit crowded with 4 people.

Dan

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socials are sort of like a meet and greet withthe excpetion there may be play time. Clubs. there are many different types of clubs from on premise to off premise,to theatres etc. Each one has value to some.On premise clubs you get to play there.Most will have several different rooms to play in. From one room one bed ,two beds group room, dungeon room etc.Some will offer up a hottub,pool shooting room ,small kitchen for coffee and a large meetign room. Some rules at clubs . open door means all are welcomed,semi closed door means your welcomed to watch and you must ask to enter closed door knock before coming in and locked door ,means stay away. Each club has different rules, normally on the interenet you can find out what the rules are. Most clubs on your first visit will take you around to show you the place and explain the rules.This usually identifies you as a newbie to all that are regulars there. We like the on premise clubs for what we call the fuck and flee . where you meet a couple that lives at a great distance from you,Those that you would normally not see on a month to month basis. you meet, hook up, get to know one another a little better and decide if you wish to play. For us, every now and again is a great way to play. Off premise club. you can dress to the extreme or as casual as you wish to be.No actual play is allowed, normally lite female play is always acceptable,flashing etc..Its more of a glorified meet and greet , where you can role play,act out some fantasies short of actual sex. Here in florida on premise usually means no alcohol is allowed in.off premise has alcohol or is like a bottle club or after hours pub. Both of these types of clubs have great value ,each has to make up their own mind as to what you are most comfortable in.Each has their regulars some want to call cliques. We prefer to say regulars as they know one another much better then if someone comes once in a blue moon.We would say those that are more open,casual ,have the ability to go up to strangers and start a conversation will have a much better time at a club then those who are shy and reserved until you get to know people.It always amazes me how people will go one time and expect people to drop what they are doing and run over to someone that has arrived at a club.This is identical to real life where you must get to know people, be seen by the people more then a few times before some will interact with you. We think the problem with clubs,they should have people there that come up to you,ask some questions and try to place or introduce couples to other couples.If this were to happen, people would enjoy the club scene so much better.

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What is a social? Is it the same as a house party? We have been "hosted" in another home & have hosted as well. New subject. What happens at a club? Really, We have never been nor do we know anyone that has. Is it a place to network with other swingers? What {can} take place. How far do people go. Is it safe? Help us please. Thanks.

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TOPIC: Newbies need help with terms situations