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Created by: karen44andscott44 Original Starting post for this thread:
So we found SLS-we're not having any luck getting replies until a few days ago when we got an invitation to our first house party. We're thinkin WOOHOO!! but there's a lot of things we don't know about house parties--from do we bring the hosts a gift to how do we interact with others in the playroom. Are each couple's rules laid out at the start?We'd like some of the experienced in this lifestyle to post things that we newbies should know and expect so we can enjoy this to the nines and avoid anything unfortunate and/or embarrassing.

Created by: karen44andscott44
Original Starting post for this thread:

So we found SLS-we're not having any luck getting replies until a few days ago when we got an invitation to our first house party. We're thinkin WOOHOO!! but there's a lot of things we don't know about house parties--from do we bring the hosts a gift to how do we interact with others in the playroom. Are each couple's rules laid out at the start?We'd like some of the experienced in this lifestyle to post things that we newbies should know and expect so we can enjoy this to the nines and avoid anything unfortunate and/or embarrassing.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Have you met the hosts prior to the party? Have you met any of the other guests prior to the party? Our first house party we just hung out in the kitchen to get the "lay of the land" so to speak. We learned alot and met some great people. Before the party we discussed it and agreed not to play and just see what it was like. No pressure made it more fun. A couple we had met previously and then saw at the party answered some other questions we had. This same couple had a house party, the second one we attended, and we had a great time. They made is feel very relaxed. Have fun and play safe.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As far as rules go, everybody makes their own rules. If someone asks or aggressively pushes you to break your own rules, just say NO forcefully. Every house party has a different dynamic to it. Even if it's the 10 party you've been to with the same exact couples, they are not all in the same mood as they were previously. So don't expect ANYTHING, and hope for the best. Low expectations are a good thing. Consider your first house party as a chance to see some exciting stuff, and a chance to get to identify some people you might want to meet later for drinks or dinner to get better acquainted. We used to print up "business cards" with our screen name on SLS on them and our pictures, and an email address where we could be contacted. We'd give those to anyone we thought we'd want to get to know better later. And bring a pen so you can write down the names and contact info for people you want to contact later. Sometimes you get surprised and just click beautifully with someone you just met minutes ago, and you end up having a hot time with them. It isn't often, but it does happen. But think of this house party as an opportunity to make friendly acquaintances with future "possibles" and you won't be disappointed. Even if you don't have sex with anyone, you might have some fun flirting and making out a little and doing a little feeling up of each other. Go to have fun and be friendly. Anything beyond that, if it happens, is a bonus. And it might not happen at your first party. Jim
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8159 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Congrats on your first invite to a party! You guys must be so excited ( and nervous) Check out : FORUMS - General Discussions - 3-Some - We're going to our first party You will find some helpful information there Have fun!
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	There are so many things that can/will go wrong. I would suggest you read the forums on subjects like houseparties, newbies, etc. The forums has alot of opinions and advise on many topics. Welcome to the forums!
Spring TX			Username hidden (1853 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So we found SLS-we're not having any luck getting replies until a few days ago when we got an invitation to our first house party. We're thinkin WOOHOO!! but there's a lot of things we don't know about house parties--from do we bring the hosts a gift to how do we interact with others in the playroom. Are each couple's rules laid out at the start?We'd like some of the experienced in this lifestyle to post things that we newbies should know and expect so we can enjoy this to the nines and avoid anything unfortunate and/or embarrassing.
Cadillac MI			Username hidden (28 post)

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